Help needed!

Hi there, im new to this forum and new to seeing escorts.
I've been thinking about it for years and after a recent health scare I've decided to pull the trigger as it were.
I have tried contacting a few escorts in my area, got a promising lead on one after a few emails I made a booking. All contact then stopped, I never had a call or message. I gave it a few days then sent an email asking if I had done something etc. Got a generic "do you want to see me again?" reply. No explanation or anything, i kept my messages short and on point, wasnt rude or impolite.
What am I doing wrong?
I have bad anxiety issues and often struggle to read social cues, which is not helping me!

I am a total newbie at this but I dont want to keep making mistakes as then i will branded a timewaster etc
Thanks in advance

I suggest you read all the other newbie threads (there are many) You will get the advice you seek.

www.adultseek.com/gb/forum/clients/3356-advice-for-a-first-timer
www.adultseek.com/gb/forum/clients/3900-never-done-tbis
www.adultseek.com/gb/forum/clients/3027-so-anyone-that-wants-payment-upfront-is-a-scam-right
www.adultseek.com/gb/forum/clients/2994-spotting-the-scammers
www.adultseek.com/gb/forum/clients/3374-nervous-first-timer
www.adultseek.com/gb/forum/clients/3132-advice-for-new-punters
www.adultseek.com/gb/forum/clients/3421-punting-essentials

Thanks for the response, ive been researching for months but so far my attempts at contacting a suitable SP have been awful. I made a booking after some messages on AW but i never got a call to arange from her. No contact until a few days later but the same thing happened again, in fact the messages i got were confusing as she didnt seem to remember we had spoken before. Im in the licolnshire area, sor far i have only had responses from 2 ladies all stopped replying. Im polite, to the point but i seem to be going wrong somewhere.

without seeing the messeges you sent its difficult to say

this thread may help you

www.adultseek.com/gb/forum/clients/3556-booking-etiquette

Thanks for the replies, I'm currently speaking with a few promising leads so hopefully your advice has helped! Thanks all

Welcome and happy punting.

Thanks very much, i'm currently in contact with a lovely lady who seems to understand my needs. Got a booking in place and feeling really positive. Is it good practice to buy a gift? Its a hotel meet so should i tip? If so, how much is considered appropriate? Again many thanks in advance!

Ok so update: Got talking to a SP and arranged an outcall. We had a few messages and she seemed to understand my needs and came across as quite nice. She ticked all the boxes as im not a blokey bloke, im quite shy and socially awkward. So I booked a hotel and send her the confirmation. All seemed good but suddenly all comunication stopped, I sent a message and got no response. I dont want to bombard her with messages. This is the 3rd time this has happened, im putting it down to my anxiety and probably putting them off but its so frustrating!! I'm aware most women find me replusive, but c'mon!! Back to the drawing board i go.....

better to do incall first

any updates ?

Definitely try an incall.
A simple message asking for availability, conforming price and this is your first time.

Once a time and date is agreed, send a quick polite message double checking everything is still on.

The ring or message when you arrive.

Pay in cash.

I cant remember who said this "if at first you cant succeed try..try again" that is the way with punting.