Nervous first timer

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Ryan1992
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18th Aug '21 - 21:13PM
Hi My Name's Ryan and I'm new to the site. Based in Derby east Midlands, been so close to calling an escort so many times, but am super nervous Haha. Any tips on dos and dont's first time, and how to relax. Any advice would be greatly reduced...
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18th Aug '21 - 22:49PM
Read the Profile properly first, then try to call the lady in question first before you meet up.
Remember to be Respectful and should you decide to make an appointment, try to follow it through as nobody likes having their time wasted. If you can’t make the appointment let the lady in question know you can’t make it in plenty of time and don’t use the excuse ‘I’ve been called into/back to work’ as this is the number one excuse that’s used frequently.
If you do follow through, a Professional will help you be at ease and remember Respect and Courtesy go a long way.
Good luck in your search
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sweetxelle
71 posts. Member since Aug 2020
19th Aug '21 - 14:22PM
Following from what Angie said, make sure you read the profile fully. There is nothing more frustrating than getting asked tons of questions that we have answered already!

Maybe look for a GFE (girlfriend experience) provider. Just be polite and respectful, we are used to nerves so try not to overthink, it’s supposed to be a fun experience!

Good luck! X
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19th Aug '21 - 15:34PM
Thanks for the Advice. Girlfriend experience is definitely what I'm after
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Dave451
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20th Aug '21 - 23:59PM
Good luck Ryan. Don't be afraid to tell the lady it's your first time with a Working Girl. She will help you get over your nerves and I will tell you a little secret - even experinced punters get nervous meeting a new girl, but this soon passes once the meeting is underway.

Make sure you shower, shave etc. and dress well as you would on a first date. The girl will appreciate this and it will boost your self confidence.

Don't forget to report back!
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22nd Aug '21 - 21:39PM
Most girls enjoy welcoming new clients. We get such a buzz from satisfying a new nervous client
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26th Aug '21 - 16:18PM
It's easy for us to tell you to relax, it's not easy just to do that and butterflies are normal. I was in exactly your same position last month - first ever punt and nervous as hell. Took me a good three weeks to build up courage to message! I'm so so glad that I did. Ended up (for various reasons) at Club Classique in Loughborough and I cannot recommend it enough for a first timer. The front of house was lovely and welcoming and so was the girl. Told them about my nerves and it being my first time and they were both understanding and accommodating.
Tips and advice: Be nice, treat people as human beings (surprising that his has to be said, but there we are). If you want something a bit varied, ask upfront and don't be pushy, a no is a no. Do not haggle on price - ever, that is very disrespectful. Make sure you are clean and brush your teeth/gargle before.
Bet of luck and hope you go through! Let us know if you like and also welcome to the society
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26th Aug '21 - 21:26PM
Good luck in your hunt ?
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10th Sep '21 - 06:41AM
we were all first-timers once Ryan.
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Dave451
76 posts. Member since Mar 2021
10th Sep '21 - 15:06PM
Have you visited an Escort yet Ryan. If so, let us know how you got on.
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captswiss
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13 posts. Member since Jan 2022
25th Jun '22 - 14:44PM
we all get nerves sometimes its natural
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BobStevens
9 posts. Member since Dec 2019
26th Jun '22 - 10:45AM
Its like learing to swim, once youv've taken the plunge its fun.
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26th Jun '22 - 11:11AM
I like that analogy
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OldmanEd
8 posts. Member since Jan 2020
13th Jul '22 - 19:16PM
Ryan how about tofft and booking these three

www.adultseek.com/Tory31
www.adultseek.com/CharlieX30
www.adultseek.com/MillieBrownnewaccount

then leaving feedback
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SoniaBestOWO
2 posts. Member since Feb 2021
2nd Jan '23 - 20:52PM
Just relax, dont ask silly questions and read profiles.
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DarrenG
1 post. Member since Jan 2023
3rd Jan '23 - 21:04PM
Alright Ryan am the same, been looking at loads of escorts recently, also eastmidlands. My nervous get the better of me each time I go to contact
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Snatchmaster
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2nd Mar '23 - 11:10AM
new & nervous is natural but you'll get over it
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loadedcock
3 posts. Member since Apr 2023
28th Apr '23 - 09:22AM
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Make sure you shower, shave etc. and dress well as you would on a first date. The girl will appreciate this and it will boost your self confidence.



this help me, thanks
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Ronniexxx
11 posts. Member since Apr 2023
28th Apr '23 - 12:58PM
Do a bit of home work. Look at profiles carefully. Go for one that does a gf experience. One that's been working a few years and has good reviews on adwrks ut also other review sites. I was nervous but my experience has generally been very good. Not all the stories of drugs...messy places and girls are remotely true. I've seen many a pleasant reliable and trust worthy girl that made for a great meet.
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hunglikea
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3 posts. Member since Apr 2023
28th Apr '23 - 13:22PM
Avoid vivastreet and adultwork as they are just crammed full of scammers.
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