Advice for a first timer

Hello everyone. A bit nervous about meeting an escort and wondered if anybody could give me any words of wisdom?
I think ideally i would want a massage just to get a feel for things to begin with. Is that a good idea??
Other than being squeeky clean and on time are there any other 'rules' when meeting?

Thanks in advance. Hope you have all had a good Monday!

Read profile in full, including any feedback. Possibly look for girlfriend experience (GFE). Make contact with your chosen escort by her preferred method and ask for the service you want even if this is just a massage for first meeting.

What area are you in as could also ask for recommendations on here.

Thanks Nathen! I'm based around the Blackburn/Burnley area however more than happy to drive out somewhere for the right person.

Remember she is used to dealing with nervous guys and most of us aim to please.
I promise you within no time you will be at ease and enjoying your experience

Nerves are normal! Definitely go for a GFE and make sure you tell her in advance what you’re looking for.
It’s a shame you’re so far as I love giving massages!

Good luck! X

Thanks Elle!
I'm actually down your way every now and then visiting old uni friends so would be good to keep in touch with you some way and we could give it a go? X

Luke, just drop me a message when you’re in the area x

my advice narrow your search to only those with face pictures in their profiles and who have positive feedback.

Some ladies don’t show their face in case someone they know recognises them and not everyone enjoys getting feedback as normally false on most occasions..
So I wouldn’t go with that one !

I believe there is a thread "Advice for new punters" check it out.

"Some ladies don’t show their face in case someone they know recognises them and not everyone enjoys getting feedback as normally false on most occasions.."

This is not a surprising statement from a escort with a terrible profile and ZERO feedback on any site is it ?

I would agree with Angie on that hun. Betty what’s with nasty comment... it’s not necessary is it!

Personally when my other half and I have been looking for a lady to join us we would skip profiles with face pictures as to us that shows a lack of discretion... but that is our personal choice

Nathanhooks advice is spot on always read the profiles (and the FAQ’s) and contact the lady in question. If you have any questions put them all in one email or text ... email and text ping pong is not a game we enjoy or have time for. Always be polite and respectful after all you are looking to enjoy one of the most intimate things you can do with another human.
Don’t push boundaries and always play safe xxx

Spot on Betty !
Its very boring to see these "discrete escorts" and most likely the fake escorts continually calling all the escorts on this site with face pictures, good profiles and positive feedback as fake.
I believe we know fake from real in other words discrete from real.

Well if wanting to be discreet so I don't lose my day job means that I'm not real then I'll keep having a great time with my clients whilst being 'fake' I guess ?

There are many WG who work part-time around other jobs because they enjoy escorting, however need to be discreet and don't want to have face pictures online due to their other jobs. This doesn't make them fake and I've enjoyed spending time with them much as I have enjoyed spending time with girls who do have face pictures.

I've also had the misfortune on one occasion to have arranged a visit to a WG who did have face pictures on her profile and when I got there was met by a totally different lady, who I ended up not seeing.

My point being is that there are both genuine and fake profiles out there and face pictures or the lack of is no indication of whether the profile is genuine.

Totally agree with you Nathanhook..
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Unfortunately, there is still a stigma when it comes to sex work and lots of judgemental assholes. A lady choosing to not show her face on her ad does not make her ‘fake’ or ‘boring’, just move along and find someone more to your taste.

Guess that’s you and me both Wlidflower! I’m fake as fuck with my 13 years of feedback, a website, extensive advertising, and loads of regulars.
I also don’t remember anyone saying that indiscreet means fake ?
Why are people so nasty on here we should be supporting each other and lifting each other up not taking unnecessary stabs at complete strangers ... no wonder this world is so fucked up ... wheres the love ...!
Lets spread the love light and laughter people. ???

instead of deflecting away from the point that Betty made why do you four the prolific "discrete" escort posters, with no feedback, who seem to work very little but post alot, always seem to be slagging off the escorts with feedback and face photos ?

Well said Sweetxelle and MrsJasmineJones ! ?
Good to see there’s Intelligent persons here.
Lol ?

I don’t understand why others can be so horrible.
Obviously don’t know what they’re talking about!

Anyway, have a great weekend..
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