First message if you're a newbie

SMFreeman85
34 posts. Member since Jul 2022
4th Aug '22 - 21:27PM
Totally new at this. To those who've done this before, what would you reccomend sending as a first message to an escort you're interested in? What's most likely to get a response and the dos and don'ts. I'm rubbish at wording these things and I may be "too proper" or "too formal" with speaking. Are we supposed to talk that way or do escorts prefer "dirty talk"?

(Feel free to chime in your opinion too if you're an escort on here. I'm a little nervous and unsure)

Thanks
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Nathanhook
77 posts. Member since Oct 2020
5th Aug '22 - 06:39AM
Keep any message short and to the point. Something like Hi xxxx, seen your profile on adultseek. I'm xxxx and would like to arrange an incall/outfall booking for x hours at x time today please. I would like the following and list services you would like.

Good luck and enjoy.
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Britishwildflower
193 posts. Member since Jan 2020
5th Aug '22 - 08:44AM
Exactly what Nathanhook says, polite and to the point and absolutely no dirty talk in messages.
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McGraw
6 posts. Member since Jan 2022
5th Aug '22 - 10:48AM
When I’m messaging a service provider I keep matters polite, business like and brief. I only discuss matters like special requests after the initial message has been replied to.
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SMFreeman85
34 posts. Member since Jul 2022
5th Aug '22 - 20:22PM
Thanks guys. I think I was polite. Already contacted 2 people but was worried I'd screwed it up as I've had no reply. Didn't want to message again as I don't want to come across as creepy or desperate. Generally it was just a hello, found your profile would you be interested in me making a booking (didn't say what services I wanted though was gonna leave that till the next message) and asked what method of payment they prefer. All ok?
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McGraw
6 posts. Member since Jan 2022
5th Aug '22 - 21:39PM
Sounds alright to me. I personally leave discussion about payment until after the time and length of the meeting has been agreed. Phone call is my preferred method of making arrangements as the meeting tends to go better if you have spoken previously but this will differ with every service provider.
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SMFreeman85
34 posts. Member since Jul 2022
5th Aug '22 - 21:52PM
I probably will try phone call next time actually.
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lanky
10 posts. Member since Mar 2022
5th Aug '22 - 23:35PM
I get the best response rate from texting
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Bangerandgash
11 posts. Member since Nov 2021
7th Aug '22 - 18:52PM
keep it polite, to the point and as lanky suggested text is best.
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Energized
9 posts. Member since Mar 2022
8th Aug '22 - 17:07PM
Dirty talk wont get you very far and probably ignored by most.
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SMFreeman85
34 posts. Member since Jul 2022
8th Aug '22 - 19:32PM
I'm glad. I'm awful at dirty talk anyway and would have just been embarrassing. Glad I don't have to do that
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Blackadder
6 posts. Member since Jul 2022
9th Aug '22 - 10:45AM
Hi (insert name( I saw your profile and was wondering if you are available for (insert duration) on the (insert date and time)?
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svetha
5 posts. Member since Mar 2022
10th Aug '22 - 23:40PM
polite, simple, to the point and no dirty talk
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RoguePunter
RoguePunter
15 posts. Member since Sep 2021
16th Jan '23 - 20:09PM
and avoid all on whatsapp
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SpermCount
SpermCount
6 posts. Member since Apr 2023
21st Apr '23 - 11:34AM
Nathanhook wrote:
Keep any message short and to the point. Something like Hi xxxx, seen your profile on adultseek. I'm xxxx and would like to arrange an incall/outfall booking for x hours at x time today please. I would like the following and list services you would like.

Good luck and enjoy.


thanks
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partyon
2 posts. Member since Jul 2023
4th Jul '23 - 15:54PM
hey thanks for all the advice
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Allornuffing
Allornuffing
4 posts. Member since Apr 2023
17th Sep '23 - 14:10PM
Britishwildflower wrote:
Exactly what Nathanhook says, polite and to the point and absolutely no dirty talk in messages.


Thats where I went wrong in the beginning
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Patherpuss
8 posts. Member since Nov 2020
27th Nov '23 - 10:23AM
Dont start off with any of the following

Where are you located?

You free?

are you available now?

Do you?

What services do you?

I want to fuck you
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DELBOY118
4 posts. Member since May 2023
28th Nov '23 - 19:43PM
Patherpuss wrote:
Dont start off with any of the following

Where are you located?

You free?

are you available now?

Do you?

What services do you?

I want to fuck you


How you ment to inquire about there location?
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Iman
Iman
9 posts. Member since Oct 2020
28th Nov '23 - 19:52PM
DELBOY118 wrote:
[quote=Patherpuss]Dont start off with any of the following

Where are you located?

You free?

are you available now?

Do you?

What services do you?

I want to fuck you[/quote]

How you ment to inquire about there location?


once youv've booked
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