payment up front or cash on arrival

itsup
3 posts. Member since Mar 2022
17th Jun '22 - 10:04AM
Is payment up front easier than cash?
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itssobig
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18th Jun '22 - 12:15PM
Are you referring to SA? Escort outcalls? What?
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Nathanhook
77 posts. Member since Oct 2020
18th Jun '22 - 19:23PM
Only ever pay cash on arrival. Pay up front and you are at risk of being scammed.
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sunsang
11 posts. Member since Oct 2021
21st Jun '22 - 13:16PM
never do it theres no need. banking payments can reveal your name. i know you are talkin about incalls but theres always another whore who takes cash on delivery
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JohnDeer
5 posts. Member since Sep 2021
21st Jun '22 - 22:49PM
A small amount for a taxi or to at least show good faith, if the girl has good feedback and she's coming a distance that would leave her out of pocket if you were a windup merchant is not unreasonable. Not necessarily the whole taxi fare but enough that it makes it unlikely you're a pisstaker. Certainly no more than £20.
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Rockyhard
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15th Jul '22 - 15:59PM
more and more are asking for money up front for outcall, its worrying.
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EatMe
7 posts. Member since Jul 2022
16th Jul '22 - 14:44PM
why is it worrying ?
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mrbricktop
9 posts. Member since Nov 2021
16th Jul '22 - 16:02PM
because its the most common way to loose your money
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Baronclitlick
Baronclitlick
12 posts. Member since May 2020
13th Jan '23 - 15:22PM
Its the way to go if you want to get scammed.
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BrokenArrow
15 posts. Member since Jun 2020
14th Feb '23 - 15:27PM
"Only ever pay cash on arrival. Pay up front and you are at risk of being scammed."

summed up nicely
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BritishCrissy
6 posts. Member since Jun 2021
20th Mar '23 - 20:46PM
purely cash only
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TheHappypunter
TheHappypunter
10 posts. Member since Nov 2021
21st Mar '23 - 15:11PM
Is payment up front easier than cash?

yes if you have money to throw away
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SaskiaJones
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21st Mar '23 - 21:12PM
My gents have two options pay by bank transfer or cash.

Now for the guys that are worried about showing there names - god knows why theres other ways us ladies can retrieve your details so I am sorry but your stupid.

Use a monzo or revolt card.

My gents pay by bank transfer its so much easier straight into a business account.

If paying a deposit infuriates you, if you cant understand the reason for taking risks with your money as you cant 100% trust the lady you're trying to get a date with, then you are the reason the lady in question mandates a deposit. You were just filtered out and it certainly works
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BobStevens
9 posts. Member since Dec 2019
21st Mar '23 - 22:32PM
"theres other ways us ladies can retrieve your details"

REALLY, hows that when I use a burner phone, change the sim card regulaly and dont pay by bank transfer ?
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mufflover
7 posts. Member since Nov 2021
22nd Mar '23 - 01:10AM
True story.

"Sadly, your honour after sharing my ID and paying a bank transfer to an escort, my bank account was emptied,my wife divorced me and my business collapsed into liquidation, so I have no money to pay the outstanding child support."
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Chewie
10 posts. Member since Oct 2020
22nd Mar '23 - 11:37AM
thats bad...really bad
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SensualAdriana
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22nd Mar '23 - 13:06PM
cash only for me
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Scotty91
9 posts. Member since Dec 2021
22nd Mar '23 - 14:26PM
Yeah, cash only. Not going to bank transfer ever.
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NaughtyNurse
NaughtyNurse
7 posts. Member since May 2023
16th May '23 - 11:21AM
mufflover wrote:
True story.

"Sadly, your honour after sharing my ID and paying a bank transfer to an escort, my bank account was emptied,my wife divorced me and my business collapsed into liquidation, so I have no money to pay the outstanding child support."


wow!
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STIFFYONE
5 posts. Member since May 2023
16th May '23 - 23:28PM
dont see any legitimate reason to pay upfront
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