payment up front or cash on arrival

I only ever ask for cash on arrival, safety first for you as a client. Happy to arrange travel expenses extras over the phone. I validate myself with you each step of the way. What ever works for you and what you feel comfortable with.

I only ever ask for cash on arrival, safety first for you as a client. Happy to arrange travel expenses extras over the phone. I validate myself with you each step of the way. What ever works for you and what you feel comfortable with.

Cash only always! Upfront = begging to get ripped off even with a regular as things change all the time and who knows if you said or did something to piss her off in the past without knowing it or there's some other situation involved. Even a deposit is a lot of risk but full payment upfront, WTF?

cant argue with that

says it all

but still some try

because its linked to the increase in scamming

I cant believe this subject keeps coming up, any money paid to a escort/ sp/ wg/ sexwoker before you meet her is just pissing your money into a drain, dont do it.

no way mate, dont do it.

nothing is better ( or safer) than cash.

No way dude.. never pay anything up-front.

They can try as much as they like for the deposit, the booking fee, the taxi fare using whatever ecuse they want, usually the "proof you are real" nonsense, But all you say is do you want the business or not? and they mostly cave in.

Any punter who accepts paying a deposit might as well be ready wank into the toilet as he has just thrown his cash in it to.

Never pay upfront especially bank transfer 1 you not certain you get the lady who you expect.2 your details are in criminal minds.
I thought I was going to be ok with PayPal but my delivery / home address was also supplied

unfortunately if you read feedback, so...so...so many newbies fall into this deposit trap, simply because they didnt read the forums first.

can you teach this to the nervous discrete escorts that insist that its not that they will scam you but for their protection against time wasters.

Personally as a transgender escort i prefer cash on meet, that way, your feel safe and comftable upon meeting me and know what your in for (the
Night of your lives) and i still get paid, bank transfers lead to 3 things
•You know my name and details/i know yours
•papertrails
•scams
•people being able to blackmail others

Personally id never dream of doing any of those things, but i ask my clients cash or card so they get to decide and once sent, i take my phone out to them whilst they watch me delete them off my banking app details, i also turn my phone off and hand them the phone as a sign of goodwill and trust!

There are some really friendly and nice trans and female and male escorts out there!

If you have ever had a Scammed experience, just know on my behalf im sorry for that individuals behaviour towards you but most of us are friendly

I actually put in my texts
cash only
No bank transfers
I know some clients have arrived to some ladies expecting to pay by transfer or pay by transfer but it’s a scam app

However if a booking is early morning - late or one of my Spa Bookings I require a small deposit via wishtender which is anonymous and secure

Thanks for the info, Miss B! Never heard of Wishtender but just had a quick look and may be a good solution! I've sent Amazon vouchers in the past for other reasons and they were anonymous. Of course, the vouchers don't pay the rent though. Have heard of CashApp being used here but haven't tried it.

Cheers!

if it wasnt for the timewasers out there of which there are many
us ladies wouldnt need to ask for a deposit , and these scammers . spoil it for the very genuine escorts
i ask for a deposit for outcalls only on the first meeting so i know your genuine
the time wasers will have you running around doing outcalls and when you arrive they will just not answer or give a neigbours address and watch you go to the door , yes its been done to me many times
when i ask for a deposit , i get told ,im not being ripped ripped off for £20, well guess what im not wasting my time taking the booking, once the deposit is payed i want the ramaining £130 , its not worth it to me and my reputation as an escort having over 150 positive reviews, i give more than £20 a week to the homeless in Blackpool