Does anyone else care about communication?

Contacted three WGs this week in search of the next booking. All on AS.

Girl one responds to my mail message with her number and tells me to text her to book. So I do. Absolutely no response. Tried following up with a phone call. She doesn't answer. Then, almost 30 hours later, she replies with a text our of the blue saying "send your address, I can come now". Seriously? I know working girls have a genetic inability to tell the time but does she genuinely think that's a way of winning business. I told her "no thanks, you're too unreliable" so she tried to start an argument that I was being unreasonable. WTF.

Girl two, new profile. I e-mail her and she replies promptly that she's not started to work yet but will let me know when she's ready to go and she throws in a comment that indicates she gets my username (I'm not going into what it is...suffice to say it's a literary reference and she picked up on it). I pinged her back to say thanks, yes...let me know and I noted her grasp of said topic. That was three days ago. Since then, we've exchanged at least a dozen increasingly lengthy emails about life, love, sex, literature and everything in between. She's clearly a bright girl as well as an articulate one. Genuinely interesting correspondence. The sense of anticipation (possibly even for both of us) is, as a result, reaching fever pitch. We've already agreed to precede our eventual meeting with a drink (no costs involved for that time) as there's so much in common we seem to want to talk about.

Girl three replies to my message promptly, sends her number, I text, she replies, booking confirmed all within 20 minutes. She's actually not really quite my type (size 12, I prefer smaller) but she's very conveniently located, seems organised, and I'm horny so WTF. Cost reasonable. 30 minutes P and D. If it's average, so what? Get there and turns out that it's one of those infrequent punts where the minute you walk through the door, you just click with someone. An hour into the half-hour punt I finally come (actually great sex, even though I was ambivalent about her attractiveness) and for obvious reasons, I move sharply to get dressed. She asks me why I'm rushing, hands me two pillows, tells me to lie down and relax and goes off to make us a drink. Spent another hour plus just chatting. Left home at 7.30pm. Back around 11.30pm. For a half-hour local punt.

This industry never fails to shock me in the inconsistency of quality it offers but one thing I do know is that if more WGs learned to communicate properly, we'd all be a hell of a lot happier. And to be honest, probably if all punters learned to communicate a bit more respectfully with girls, we'd better off too. The quickest way to get better punts is treat the girl you're punting like a person.

Not a very interesting post, I know. Just a few insights I thought worth recording.

I care about communication. They are in a service industry part of the service is effective communication as well as delivering on the services they offer.
If I make an arrangement to meet for an hour at 5pm Friday that's when I'll turn up.
If its an outcall that's when I expect her to turn up. I'd NEVER suggest "I'll come now" or suggest she arrives immediately. I wouldn't entertain the first girl mentioned by the OP. The other two sound ok. I sometimes go over time with a wg if we are having sex and go over the time. One lass I used to book a 3hr outcall to a hotel I stayed at and she'd often stay the night at no extra cost we weren't fucking like rabbits all night I did get an early morning fuck thrown in for free.
I don't expect freebies or favours nor do I treat them with anything other than courtesy so I guess it works both ways. If you have shared interests or you click I don't see anything wrong in having a chat or whatever.

There's definitely no consistency for sure. Over the years I've gotten used to it and have now adapted. This means that I generally have a plan b or c to fall back on. If it's the only punt available I won't venture out . Most girls are operating in a clandestine circumstance so to some degree they can be forgiven for being sporadic. Some women I've seen are definitely up to no good, some were married, boyfriends, just doing it for extra money etc.
Back in the day a lady would advertise in a paper which would cost money. They were a lot more consistent and reliable then. They were indeed wonderful days. Like everything its unfortunate that service is shit everywhere and not just in this industry.

Haha! I once saw a girl for a 15min appointment and she was a very interesting chat. Lovely girl, sexy as hell. When I tried to make a move i would be rebuffed. 'Wtf' I was thinking to myself. She had already made me wait 30 minutes for her house number and I was just about to leave when she messaged me the number. Got in and then wouldn't proceed with the punt but talk. After 1 hour and 15 minutes she finally said "I suppose we'd better get on with it then".
I had grown to like her even more over an hour of talking interesting subjects.
The intimate time was a total of 5 minutes ...lol, she emptied me in seconds.

Shes put her prices up now. Gutted.

Maybe I'm misunderstanding you but I recently had issues communicating myself. There was no phone number or email so I just sent a message via the site and received no reply. Then I remembered she had an "SC" name and it clicked that SC was Snapchat.

I had researched initialisms to find this out but I guess I should have gone straight to urban dictionary.

I appreciate how this app is probably more anonymous but it was not obvious what she wanted. Even if she had just said "snapchat", for all I knew it was just to show off her pictures, not the desired contact method.

On a different note, I like the idea of speaking with these professionals and I like seeing this in the escort videos. It humanizes them. Naturally I respect that not everyone has the same first language which can cause a barrier.

communication is key but seems like many providers are poor at it.

in this day and age you would think communication to be easy

makes you wonder why they class themselves as bisexual

one thing i learned early on was dont waste your time emailing escorts, they never reply

its a two way street

I think its essential to have a good flow of communication. I often find it exhilarating having positive fluid communication

so why are so many escorts so bad at it?

The same could be said about clients lol

I try but its a skill to be learnt as talking to working girls seems different to others.

"The same could be said about clients lol"

true

communication begins with the profile I just wish many would put a bit more effort into them.

communication begins with the profile I just wish many would put a bit more effort into them.

+1

Communication is huge with me, when a client contacts me firstly i ask the following

Your name and location

Your preferred dates and times

The preferred duration of our meeting

and lastly the best times I can call you back

very simple....

have you ever thought it may not be the ladies messaging you, longer meetings take priority over shorter meetings.

Saskia, do you really think anyones going to give you their real name ?

I hope they dont