Advice for mature virgin

Hello,
due to a number of circumstances, I find myself at a point in my life having not experienced intimacy with anyone. I am a mature (51) virgin and have made the decision to seek out the services of someone in your profession. I am Buckinghamshire based and hope to procure some advice from yourselves on the approach. My age and unique status are unlikely to appeal to everyone so what is your advice.

There is no reason I can see that an escort would not be interested in taking you on as a client. We dont base our decisions on sexual experience but on level of respect we receive and if we are able to fulfil your desires. Do a search for your local area and find a nice mature escort to approach, contact by her preferred contact method, introduce yourself and let her know what kind of call you would like, if you are unsure what you would like, just explaining your situation will suffice and I'm sure she will create an experience catered towards your specific needs.

There are only three things which I would be able to offer:

1) Do be honest with the lady and let her know your age and the fact that you are a virgin. That would enable her to make a plan for how to approach the appointment in the most suitable way possible. A large percentage of escorts will have seen a virgin before, so

2) Don't go looking for a lady based solely on the criteria of physical looks, but instead look for someone who has empathy with how she deals with other people. The only way you are likely to find this out is by closely reading the text in their profiles, as this gives a decent guide to their nature. This is important, because the fact that you have remained a virgin for so long would suggest it had some sort of strong personal meaning to you, so you are best off with a lady who can relate and understand;

3) Don't go into the appointment with preconceived notions of what it should be like to lose one's virginity. For some people, it can be a mindblowing experience, but for other people it can be a deflating "meh" feeling. Sometimes, you will only truly find a genuine point of ecstacy after multiple encounters, so either way, try it multiple times with as many ladies as you desire before making a judgement as to what is best for you.

Good luck.

I'd like to thank you both for your great advice, I was worried about posting here, but you have both been extremely helpful,

Hey there,

I’m just starting in my escort journey and not based too far away.

I’d be happy to help and guide u through the situation

Xx

I only just received your message HeatherEnglish and it now seems you are not active. If you are still around, then I would definitely appreciate your help in this matter, my situation has not changed, but I am hoping to rectify that before my next birthday

what unique circumstances ?

Thanks for your reply, I din't mean my circumstances were unique, I'm sure they are similar to many other people, just that being above 50, male and a virgin is a fairly unique combination - I'm sure there are others but I am at least honest about it. My specific reasons for leaving it so late are many and not for public conversation, but in short, I suspect they are the same as many others, low confidence, a late bloomer and as I got later in life, a little embarrasment.