Time wasters! Is it just me???

Hi recently I have had so much time wasted with new guys. Seems so keen through messaging up to meeting then no show up! I'm out all aswell , therefore my time&fuel is wasted.
Is this common or just my luck??? Lucy-Marie 💋

Escorting is a fickle business, through time you will acquire genuine regular bookings.

Timewasters are timewasters... the way to sort the men out from the boys ask for a deposit of 30% and balance on arrival. If its a no you wont be wasting your time.

I have a lot of men message me who clearly aren't interested in meeting. I've had a few car meets where I've turned up and there hasn't been anyone there but now I literally meet for those in a location close to me so if they don't turn up I haven't travelled far. All men I arranged to meet in hotels or at their homes so far have been legit.

I have a confirmation system so I don't waste fuel and that usually works although you will get some who play the full game. I don't give exact location until just before for car meets.
I'm considering asking for a small deposit for outcalls because you block out a length of time, turn others away and a lot are cancelling for sickness lately. Sickness can't be helped but it doesn't help me when I've turned others away for that time. I pay my dentist a 50% deposit just for my appointment and if I cancel same day I lose that.

I dont even read messages or accept booking requests made online, only by phone/ text. Also require their profile details so I can see their forum posts and who they have met. Their phone number I check on client eye and NUM.

Fantasy hunters!!

you've gotta love them....!!!!

The bane of my existence

After some time of escorting you learn to pick up on the cues of time wasters. Also I suggest charging for fuel before you leave, some escorts call this a deposit

I have yet to meet with a SP on Adultseek,the first one I tried to meet let me down 3 times.She then admitted that as a single mother she had childcare problems,but she said if I made a booking she would not let me down.A booking was made and confirmed.She then wanted another 20 pounds over the agreed price.She disappeared a few days later. I have met with 2 ladies who I booked through Adultwork before I joined Adultseek.As far as I can see Adultseekis a total waste of time

thats what I do too

luckily there are far fewer time wasters on here than I experienced on other sites.

Defo not just you. I worked out once that I was losing on average the amount that I was earning a year one time. I don't have too many problems now but am still shocked from time to time

You know, just the other day I had made an appointment. I made sure I checked with a satellite navigation the route and that I knew all the landmarks along the way.

I got the train ticket that even if late would give me ample time to get there.

With 30 minutes to spare I was at the right street.

Now the exact location required a different SN program but it was sort of a dead end so I thought that's why you couldn't see images going right up to the door. Fair enough, I thought, and I thought I had the route perfected but I kept finding difficulty. I asked every local I came across and they were all very nice and as helpful as they could be but for the most part they had never heard of this exact location.

In retrospect I suppose I should have asked the SP earlier but I kept thinking I was almost there I suppose. When I did message her that "I've arrived in street X but I can't find place Y" she gave me some directions including to take the first right (that was on an incline) that lead to a car park. An unfortunate coincidence had me find such a car park (incline and everything) but research I have done since has me believe that I took the 2nd right instead of the 1st.

Now what happened? Either
a) I had actually already been down there and noticed a sign. For our purposes imagine I was looking for "Rose Place" and saw a sign that said "Merriden" so I thought immediately I was in the wrong place and dismissed it as a "first right". Of course, had this been the case surely she would have said "2nd right", right?

b) the other possibility is that without really thinking I just walked straight past the 1st right because to me it looked like someone's back garden. I thought I was looking for a side street, not a block of flats (she had never specified), this might be a factor.

And then she was calling me and she sounded very patient but also very unhappy with me (she's only human) and she told me about "two doors" but I could see 12 doors and it didn't help that I found a thing with which I could buzz 7 like she asked. As a last resort I ran onward and two nice older ladies asked me the trouble and suggested I get my "friend" on the phone so they could direct me and this closeness between civilians and the SP just got to me psychologically and I was embarrassed and stressed and I just thanked them for the kindness and walked purposefully away. Walking right past the correct turn-off to find her as I walked out of that street.

I messaged saying "I'm sorry, but it's just not worth it".

I didn't want to fornicate with her even if I had found it by this point. I had travelled all the way with a sense of quiet confidence and switched-on contentment and I now I felt like a lost child.

It's easy to blame her for "being somewhere that was impossible to find", as I thought bitterly later but clearly she could find it.

Rather than assign blame I think it's better for all parties to learn something. I have learnt that the google maps phone app is not good enough and I must use the website. Maybe consider some different services and also that what my brain immediately assumes is just someone's drive way can actually lead to places.

If you are a professional sex worker, you will have much better income control if you give your clients clear directions and instructions, even at the last minute. Had I known that I wanted a large white apartment building that you see immediately after the turn, then I may have thought to turn back and she and I would both have had a better day. I knew it was the wrong car park because she sent me a picture of the right one.

I feel no small amount of foolish and guilty for being that guy that makes escorting a pain for escorts. Even in the world of SN, finding places is a skill they neglect in schools.

I considered hopping over a fence to try and get to the area someone thought was the place but thankfully I didn't. The will to get there without being late was 100% alive in me.