Asking the dreaded STI question

How can I ask this without offending you ? I'm a clean, average guy looking for a second Escort experience (nothing weird just miss a beautiful woman) in the Poole Bournemouth area. It's hard enough that profile contacts don't reply but I do understand that and the risks you take every day. That said I'm scared stiff of catching an STI, I'm a full time single dad with limited opportunity to be with anyone so I thought this would be the answer. Put me in my place please, tell me what I'm not doing too get a reply and please advise (should anyone reply) how I can ask the question about STI tests without getting slapped in the face. Thankyou for not falling asleep if you are still reading.

In terms of being asked about STI testing by clients I am perfectly happy to clarify when I was last tested and the results. STI tests are only a 'snapshot' at the time though. I would suggest perhaps meeting a lady who uses condoms for sex and oral to help ease your worry.

Thankyou BWF, I did ask for oral, however it definitely didn't feel the same. Not a disappointment but just lacking that extra feeling. Honestly i was hoping to be kept just at the point of no return but I think that would be impossible with a condom. I get it though, you must wo der what sort of guy is going to turn up next and if he has anything, probably wouldn't say anything or just lie.

Plus she was on the phone answering text messages all the time which was a bit,well not great for me. She was very welcoming though and I was bloody nervous 😂. Id love to meet another lady though and s try again, but no one replies 😭

That really isn't good service to be answering messages in your time. Plenty of ladies here will be happy to edge you either with condom or without. Just a case of researching and connecting with the right person.

Again thanks, if you have any friends or recommendations I'd appreciate it. I'm often in Taunton and home is Bournemouth.
I do have another question if you don't mind 🙄... If you had a drink first together before any physical contact, im guessing it's the same rate as such? Time is time.

I'm afraid I only know escorts local to me. Yes it would be the same rate as time is time. Although longer dates do help with relaxing in each others company.

Hi sweetheart, I hope this message finds you well.. you have every right to be concerned! It's actually a breath of fresh air to hear a client concerned about the possibility of catching an sti! I'm sick 2 death of being asked if I'll offer things unprotected! I almost think & have even said a no of times, 'the fact that yr asking 4 BB (& a few times guys have gone into the thousand pound mark trying 2 get me 2 agree 2 provide this service, b4 I've said this 2 them) is that u can't catch it twice!' AS if they're not worried, do they already have something! In that case they can't catch it 2s if already have it! So if an Escort gets defensive bcuz you've asked this question walk away! Mayb test them, ask if they'll offer BB (bareback-unprotected sex) if they answer yes, well again walk away! Bcuz they could of had negative test results text them the hr b4 but then just seen some1 & done BB so no1 can ever b 100% sure unless that person knows she's or he hasn't been active since having the results! Unfortunately hunni even with a condom there's still a risk! What i though was just pre-cum from a male, my sti dr informed me that this can also b discharge from having an sti! So if this is touched then a condom put on & that gets on2 the condom & inside it goes !!! Oops.. you've caught an STI! So nothing is 100% safe! Just as if u where 2 meet with someone on a date! Well there's a good chance that there's more chance of catching an sti! As for a professional Escort taking condoms, wipes 2 a job or at the property comes hand in hand! So it would b like a plumber forgetting his tools🔧to not have any condoms etc! So its a difficult 1 really but certainly test them 1st over the phone 2 c if they do offer bb or owo etc.. as obviously there's a higher chance of the worst happening! Also like the other lady replied to u, that's really unprofessional of the lady who u saw 2 b sat txting in your time!! Yes if theres an emergency we have 2 deal with it! But that would b 1 call!! Also when I know a gent quite nervous I'm always prepared to spend extra time if needed to break the Ice etc.. but it's all about finding the right Escort! Good luck sweetheart xx

Thanks Sasha, brilliant answer and that's exactly what I will do. I hope i don't get kicked out for asking BB then retreating saying I didn't mean it 😂. A thousand pounds for BB? Jesus, respect to you for saying no.
It's a trade off for sure, safety vs that feeling of nothing in between, my experience wasn't great nor never of the girl but lack of feeling through the condom. Anyway i did get a reply this morning 😁. I asked if she would pleasure herself and maybe let me help without any internal touch and finish with oral, I'm going to ask if there are any condoms i can supply that might make it a bit more sensual but i fully appreciate a thinner condom than a wellington boot has risks?. God that will be a test not touching the main areas 😂.
Thanks to both you and BWF for taking the time to chat. Xxc

Sorry about the grammar....
I meant it wasn't the girls fault that the oral wasn't great it just lacked sensual touch because of the condom.

You mean STD?

STI is the current preferred terminology not STD.