Time wasters!!!

Ok people please help , since putting up our profile ( couple) we have had nothing but our time wasted by people, it's super frustrating especially when alot of prep goes into making sure everything is ready for the experience requested from us. We get daily messages and phone calls and requests to book. They agree a time, keep contact and then just don't appear.

We do not provide free photos and videos or anything like that so we're not already providing the "goods" but we're friendly and chat about what they would like to help them feel comfortable. We have plenty of photos and videos available on the site for them.

We don't want to ask for deposits because it can look like we're trying to scam but it's something we're questioning because how can we figure out if they're genuine?

Any tips are welcome. We've used other sites before and yes there's always some that just seem bored so are messing about but we've never experienced it happening this much .

Thank you in advance

Hi. I.work solo and with my partner. I (we) don't offer free pics of vids but they can buy if they want too... I (we) used to answer all questions by text I don't answer calls when I did it was just havy breathing... So we don't go into every detail. We answer questions yes or no... (That's it!) If they book we (i) give them 15 mins after the booking time then we block xxx
Hope this helps x

Hey thank you for your response, yes and no is a very good idea for questions. I also like on your profile you've added the cost for longer conversations around sexual activity....I think that's a good idea too , gives a clear boundary around what is free messages xx

ok but are you showing what you both look like fully in pictures and giving all information when requested to do so,

No there is no pictures of our full face and no nude . We give relevant information for the booking being requested, if it’s something already on our profile we advise they have a read. Sadly this site has not really worked for us , we get contacted loads but 99% are a waste of time . We use other site where we don’t have this problem atall .

I don't do incalls so don't have this particular problem but I have loads of time wasters. Some like you said heavy breathing down the phone. Some clearly just getting off by messaging too. I don't provide photos anymore either as then I wouldn't hear back or they would come back a week later asking for another photo. I get so frustrated with all the messages. They can see pictures, what I'll do and the price all from adultseek but it's like they just get off messaging.

I had same issues but I put as much information as possible and pictures including face but then I was a TV.
It did reduce the amount of timewasters but its up to yourselves if you wish to do that but sadly timewasters is all part of this escorting world and its got worse since covid too, its disheartening but you got to take it on the chin and move on

and to add, a short free video is a good idea too on website, of what to expect and i had free one and used WhatsApp to show I'm real.
Asking for deposits is a big NO NO especially now as once people see that in your profile they quickly move on and do not even read further.
Good luck guys