Is it a waste of time to message through the site?

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Ilovefeet4
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2nd Aug '21 - 19:27PM
I imagine escorts get a lot more messages through the site than to their phone as it's more discrete, do any ever reply to messages on here and if so how long usually for a reply? I'm new so help appreciated.
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2nd Aug '21 - 23:29PM
I prefer messages through here.
I get an email saying I’ve got a message and it saves my phone pinging 24/7
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4th Aug '21 - 12:56PM
I look at my private messages and do reply to them, but unfortunately I never get replies back, probably because the person wants to remain anonymous. I would only ever meet a client if and when he calls me, that way we can both decide if we want to go ahead with the meeting.
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Britishwildflower
193 posts. Member since Jan 2020
4th Aug '21 - 15:11PM
I get far more texts and calls than messages on here tbh. I answer however someone chooses to contact me but I never meet someone without contact by phone for safety reasons.
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4th Aug '21 - 16:06PM
Same here, but people just keep on texting out with my working hours.

So guys, please get in touch during my working hours and call instead of texting to book your appointment.
Thanks
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5th Aug '21 - 00:03AM
What’s infuriating is when have given information during a call, next thing I get lots of texts with silly questions.
With silly behaviour from the start, then ask yourself if the lady in question would enjoy meeting you?
I know it’s nerve racking, but try to be Respectful and Sensible when you do manage the courage to call us.
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5th Aug '21 - 01:34AM
I got one the other night thought it was free!
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5th Aug '21 - 09:56AM
Yes, I met someone recently and he was looking for a Girlfriend so thought I would meet him for ‘free’ too... I’m sure some guys think we’re a dating site!
So just remember! We are offering a Service which you have to pay for as this is how the ladies make their living.
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5th Aug '21 - 14:42PM
I've messaged about 10 and had no replies? How should I approach them in my first message? Or am I just unlucky?
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Nathanhook
77 posts. Member since Oct 2020
5th Aug '21 - 16:52PM
Probably just unlucky, there are however a large number of old profiles of now inactive ladies on here, just like on other sites. Sometimes it's difficult to tell whose active and whose not. What area are you looking in and what are you looking for, as maybe people in the forum can recommend.
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5th Aug '21 - 17:29PM
That’s a shame!
Best to call from my experience. Perhaps leave a short message. Some ladies don’t reply to VM.
If you don’t get anywhere text a short text for lady to get back to you and if not heard, probably as other person mentioned, then maybe they are no longer on here.
Majority of ladies use the Availability on their profile when they are available and it’s normally high lighted in Green.
Hopefully that helps you.
Best of luck
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5th Aug '21 - 17:31PM
Also keep in mind that when you get in touch, the lady might ‘be busy’ for an hour or more and may take time to reply back to you.
Also, unless stated on the profile, don’t call at late hours or into the wee small hours.
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Nathanhook
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5th Aug '21 - 18:04PM
As above I prefer to either text or phone the lady, and have found that most reply fairly quickly, this also allows me to be able to confirm a booking for later that day.
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1st Sep '21 - 12:21PM
Try to use the Private Message A’s that’s what it is Private.. that way just the lady in question will see your request..and hopefully answer you as that’s the decent thing to do.
Good luck ?
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1st Sep '21 - 12:27PM
Best not ask requests on the Open Forum like on here..
I like to be Private ..
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21st Sep '21 - 23:39PM
Everyone works differently. It’s never a good idea to email for a same day appointment Make a call, if you don’t get an answer leave a voice mail, or drop the lady a text. Make sure you read her whole profile though as she may say text don’t call or visa versa. If you are emailing make it short and to the point ... appointment time, date, duration and any special requests or if she provides a number of different experiences which one you would like. Be polite, don’t use text talk and use whole sentences to avoid confusion.
Personally I will not take an appointment via email or land line it has to be from a visible mobile number. I do always get back to my emails, but phones calls, voice mails and texts will always take priority as 95% of guys that email seem to be time wasters. Hope this helps hun... happy punting ?
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21st Sep '21 - 23:47PM
I’ll go with what MrsJasmineJones again as she seems to understand the business like I do and makes very good sense !
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22nd Sep '21 - 00:10AM
Thanks Angie ... it’s good to know there’s another like minded lady out there.?
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Chewie
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22nd Sep '21 - 10:47AM
I dont think many escorts on here the same as on other sites even read emails
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22nd Sep '21 - 12:05PM
Emails are a waste of time from my own experience. When I have replied back, I normally don’t get a response back, so now I tend to read and delete.
Guy like to hide behind emails and are usually time wasters.
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