Texting without reading or looking at your pictures...?

Hello ladies.
Is it just me, or so gents not know how to introduce themselves when they text...
I get a lot of texts just saying ‘hi’ to which I generally ignore. Or il ask for their details(name,age and ethnicity).
I also get gents that message asking what I do and if I have pictures... like Ofcourse I do. How/why do they not make any efforts to read or look at my pictures. Surely it’s easier for them to know what I look like an what I do, saves both parties time and effort.
It seems more so on this site, hence why I’m complaining.
They seem to be less used to the ‘punter rules and etiquette’ if you know what I mean?

Does anyone else notice those that call on this site are more flakey and less mannered compared to say another well know adult site.
I do think, they should make it some what more appealing for the gents to make a profile and engage on here properly and that way feedback and whatnot can be regulated...
just my thoughts.

Hope everyone is safe and are taking time to figure things out.
Big hugs,
Alexa x

Just delete them, I get many each day. Who would reply to just 'Hi'. A membership site for clients would be a good idea, weed out the bad ones. I'm getting text now for Sex Chat but guess what, they think it's free! I'm not a charity. As most of us are not even working, that's just taking advantage, bloomin cheek. Keep safe dear ones, it will get better xx

Yes Alexa,
I experience this every day !
It's as though they are incapable of reading, ( sure most of them don't know how to have a decent conversation),-and they can hide behind texts...
Since the Covid 19, I've noticed I've been getting more Crude, Distasteful texts... these guys, quite frankly I wouldn't want to meet atall under any circumstances, but at present they are bored and want a girl they can play stupid games with for nothing !
Again, I don't entertain them...
But, more and more just don't bother to read the profile which I find most infuriating. And also most don't introduce themselves and haven't a clue how to talk to us....I wouldn't ever meet any client until I'd spoken to them prior to meeting...
Other than that, hope you manage to remain Safe and Healthy during this uneventful period.
Kindest regards,
Ruth ??

Yes Alexa,
I experience this every day !
It's as though they are incapable of reading, ( sure most of them don't know how to have a decent conversation),-and they can hide behind texts...
Since the Covid 19, I've noticed I've been getting more Crude, Distasteful texts... these guys, quite frankly I wouldn't want to meet atall under any circumstances, but at present they are bored and want a girl they can play stupid games with for nothing !
Again, I don't entertain them...
But, more and more just don't bother to read the profile which I find most infuriating. And also most don't introduce themselves and haven't a clue how to talk to us....I wouldn't ever meet any client until I'd spoken to them prior to meeting...
Other than that, hope you manage to remain Safe and Healthy during this uneventful period.
Kindest regards,
Ruth ??

Definitely with the sms chat they think it’s free! Why does this site offer no way for anyone to receive funds safely without use having to almost beg for them to trust us. They let us say we offer phone and text services but then leave it open and up to use to then try and get payment.
I’ve had several time wasters saying they will pay to then not.

But the last month or so I’ve gotten really strict with whom I message back. It’s seems though, because they have our number upfront they can use it willy nilly.

I’ve stopped taking new clients because they are far too desperate right now and all manner and etiquette has gone out the window.

I really appreciate you responding Ruth!

I guess I’m frustrated that the site isn’t quite as helpful- it’s more like a yellow pages for punters and clients.
If the site had a way where we could get credits for texts and whatnot then it would give use ladies that rely on face 2 face meets a chance at making some money.

I used another site and I spent 2 hours texting this guy, i got £7 and he bought my private gallery for £3.50.
2 hours of back and forth. Waiting for a message back.

It’s really not a great deal of money for the little and infrequent sms work.

Hope you’re coping with the world right now.
Safe huge
Xx

Speaking on behalf of most good men, yes there are ‘water skiers’ ( my term for time wasters), but I guess you can instantly tell those genuine, I will always start with a polite message and follow this through until booking is made, yes research is key for your booking, only takes a few mins and ensures both parties are clear on meet. I guess you will always have water skiers but sharing their details with others will help keep the numbers down, you will never stop them unless they introduce a charging system, even then some will still do this. But hey you will know after the first text if they are interested so don’t waste your time with ‘Hi’ messages!

Bevman!
Thank you for replying.
It does boggle my mind as surely the client would want to know a little about the girl they are enquiring about. But yes we are quick good at quickly figuring out whether someone’s is genuine or not.
And as you said, people will always waste your time.
I do think there should be a charge, even a minimal charge like 10p to receive the girls number and profile.
I get lots of views and lots of time wasters. Probably 1 out of every 5calls is a genuine booking.

I loved when I first sorted working when I was 18, three men were of a higher standard. Older more mature and were more experienced in seeing escorts.
Now it seems everyone from 18 onwards wants a party girl for cheap or doesn’t know how to ask for a booking.
The ‘punter etiquette’ has gone it seems.
But it’s lovely to know there are gents out there still.
I always would rather make £500 less a month and have peace of mind with whom I’m seeing :)

Yes it would not put me off, so I guess it could work - guess it would reduce time waster for us all! Well hey let’s get behind it and apply the pressure, we may see a reduction in rates then lol
Yes we are still around just not too many of us, I come from the middle age but have morals and values which I guess helps!

The thing is, there seems to be little trust on this site. As compared to other adult sites. There needs to be more gents with profiles as there’s no way to verify the guys on here.
I don’t think time wasters reflex or make our prices go up though... we are just far more picky, I personally don’t see certain people and it just makes us far more grumpy when we text back sometimes.

Anyway, it’s my birthday on Thursday so I’m off for a much needed rest.

I’m sure you know your politeness and respectful nature brings you a much more thrilling and exciting experience when you see escorts. And we do appreciate it :)

Stay safe,
Take care

Thanks for your comments nice to hear and yes grumpy texts are not a good start, well enjoy yourself and happy birthday!

There are many genuine men on this site and many timewasters.
At least it's not as bad as AW.

Hi Jian.

I’m my opinion, aw is more reliable as they usually hve a profile themselves.
On here, people see your number and call before even reading a profile.

Seems like there’s more inexperienced clients on here as opposed to aw where they have to navigate the site and can search specifically what they want.

I always get people asking if I do uniforms and it’s like they don’t know how to read our enjoy list.

On aw you can clearly see what we do.

Still figuring out if it’s a good site or not.
People seem far too suspicious on here.

Hope you’re well and staying safe x

I wish they would just phone or text me, not email me as I never read them ( dont have the time)

the little brain takes control

I think we all get the "hi " messages. There's no real response, i just delete them and if they persist i block them. I don't think this site is any worse than other, though I am new here so I don't really know. Yet!

I get a lot of stupid Whatsapp texts via Skokka, oddly mostly from India or at least +91 numbers. I have no idea why. Recently one man (and he sent his location, North India!) "wanted to marry me". What kind of moron tries that line?

The thing that really pisses me are the unsolicited video calls. WTF??

I think some colleagues are first timers so their initial communication is so low, so they don’t say anything negative hehehe
Often we’re animals who feed on the visual and skip out on reading the details, so I think the easiest thing for many people is to see the girl’s photo that they like and ask what services she offers.
I like reading this part of the forum because it helps me understand a bit what it’s really like from the escorts’ point of view.