Client
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25th Jan '23 - 21:27PM
I have never been into BDSM or spanking - but a booking with a SP last year stirred an interest (she told me what she did with other punters - but she has now retired). This gave me an itch to investigate and I have enjoyed watching mild spankin porn.
Years ago I did try spanking with a SP who suggested it - but I could not get into it - mainly because psychologically "hitting" anyone - especially a woman goes counter to my character and instinct. BUT I want to try it and not hurt any one physically.
I have found a new SP who says she is up for mild spanking and I want to give it a go. Are there any spankers out there that can offer advice?
What is the best position? How do you spank without causing pain and injury? How many strokes? When to stop? How to tell when the spankee has had enough?
Not much on here by spankers - any pros to offer advice?
I just fancy getting some bum cheeks red and rosey without any hassle
Years ago I did try spanking with a SP who suggested it - but I could not get into it - mainly because psychologically "hitting" anyone - especially a woman goes counter to my character and instinct. BUT I want to try it and not hurt any one physically.
I have found a new SP who says she is up for mild spanking and I want to give it a go. Are there any spankers out there that can offer advice?
What is the best position? How do you spank without causing pain and injury? How many strokes? When to stop? How to tell when the spankee has had enough?
Not much on here by spankers - any pros to offer advice?
I just fancy getting some bum cheeks red and rosey without any hassle
Client
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25th Jan '23 - 22:45PM
If the SP is up for it, ask her how she likes it. Tell her you're inexperienced but want to try it. Above all, choose an SP who is really into it, plenty are.
Ispy008
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26th Jan '23 - 11:26AM
Why not get a wg to try it on you.
Wouldn't that give you a good insight on the level of pain, positions, implements, safe words etc?, and you might find you enjoy it.
Wouldn't that give you a good insight on the level of pain, positions, implements, safe words etc?, and you might find you enjoy it.
Client
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Dec 2021
7th Feb '23 - 12:52PM
Boundries and safe words are essential.
SaskiaJones
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8th Mar '23 - 13:04PM
Spanking is not everyones couple of tea. You certainly need boundaries and safe words which are essential at all times.
The only experience of spanking was with a gent that spanked me soo hard he drew blood, which is totally unacceptable, just to say im sorry after, my arse was bruised for weeks.
He only spanked me a couple of times but was so rough and forceful, never again.
But if you get a lady that is really into it well.... say no more
The only experience of spanking was with a gent that spanked me soo hard he drew blood, which is totally unacceptable, just to say im sorry after, my arse was bruised for weeks.
He only spanked me a couple of times but was so rough and forceful, never again.
But if you get a lady that is really into it well.... say no more
Escort
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8th Mar '23 - 23:56PM
I would suggest you take your advice from clients and providers who have experience and expertise in this field.
Kerosene
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9th Mar '23 - 16:00PM
I thick I would take Vickys expertize in this as gosple
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19th Mar '23 - 23:17PM
As mistressVicky said its better to get some intruction first.
Client
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14th Jun '23 - 19:10PM
willing to take instructions on this
Client
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22nd Aug '23 - 23:25PM
Escort
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23rd Oct '23 - 22:56PM
thescrot wrote:
I have never been into BDSM or spanking - but a booking with a SP last year stirred an interest (she told me what she did with other punters - but she has now retired). This gave me an itch to investigate and I have enjoyed watching mild spankin porn.
Years ago I did try spanking with a SP who suggested it - but I could not get into it - mainly because psychologically "hitting" anyone - especially a woman goes counter to my character and instinct. BUT I want to try it and not hurt any one physically.
I have found a new SP who says she is up for mild spanking and I want to give it a go. Are there any spankers out there that can offer advice?
What is the best position? How do you spank without causing pain and injury? How many strokes? When to stop? How to tell when the spankee has had enough?
Not much on here by spankers - any pros to offer advice?
I just fancy getting some bum cheeks red and rosey without any hassle
Years ago I did try spanking with a SP who suggested it - but I could not get into it - mainly because psychologically "hitting" anyone - especially a woman goes counter to my character and instinct. BUT I want to try it and not hurt any one physically.
I have found a new SP who says she is up for mild spanking and I want to give it a go. Are there any spankers out there that can offer advice?
What is the best position? How do you spank without causing pain and injury? How many strokes? When to stop? How to tell when the spankee has had enough?
Not much on here by spankers - any pros to offer advice?
I just fancy getting some bum cheeks red and rosey without any hassle
you dont have to look hard