Not Answering The Phone Most Of The Time

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JoeDeeFoster
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17th Jan '22 - 14:08PM
Has anyone else in Brighton had problems for weeks when you want to see an escort and when you phone about 95% of them never answer their phones and they ignore text messages? These are also from regulars that have logged into their profiles either on the same day or the day before so they are still active. I wonder how do the escorts expect to make money when they ignore their clients. The other day I spent nearly three hours trying to find an escort and the best part of my afternoon was totally wasted and the escorts say they don't want timewasters. If they were not ignoring us I could have made an appointment with one straight away, gone to see her, had the fun and come back home in less time that they wasted of mine. A while back they always answered during their working hours and now they don't. Some of the 24/7 escorts ignore calls and text messages as well. What is their game? It's bad enough when I have got an appointment and I've ended-up with a lady that wasn't in the advert and they say they don't do certain services that it clearly says they do in their adverts and they tell me that crap after I've paid the money.

One escort in Brighton I did manage to get a text reply from and at first I thought it was weird she contacted me in a reply at 6:17am. We talked about what I wanted and then just at the moment when I was going to ask for her address and I'll make my way, she asked me for a deposit of £50.00. I asked her what was that for and she first told me it was to protect me from not getting ripped-off. Then I told her I'm not sending a deposit to a total stranger with no guarantee I'd be able to see her. Then she told me the deposit is for her protection because the last time somebody attacked her. Interesting, one moment the deposit was for my protection so that I don't get ripped off and the a minute later it was for her protect because she claimed the last client attacked her. I told her again I'm not paying the deposit because if I pay it I might not ever be able to see her and I asked her how can a deposit stop somebody attacking her. She was talking utter dribble. I know what she was up to and I guess you know as well. She tried to scam me. Any gullible clients send her the money and they'll never see it again and they will never see her at all and she will probably block her victims. No wonder she was so eager to reply to my text at 6:17am, she couldn't wait to try and rip me off with a scam thinking she was going to make some easy money. Not from me she never.

Another escort conned me. First I never spent time with the lady I saw in the advert. I thought I was seeing a slim and sexy lady and I saw a rather plump lady. She charged me £80.00 for half-hour and when I asked for oral and for the sex afterwards she told me it costed extra. She had already just had £80.00 out of my wallet. What was I going to get out of that? Wanking myself off on the bed when I could have done that at home for free? Also I tried explaining things to her that other escorts include oral and sex in the main service charge except some charge extra for oral without a condom. Then she kept palming me off with that crap saying, "I don't speak English." to avoid my point. She spoke perfect English on the phone when I was making my appointment when I thought she was the slim and sexy lady. What a cheek.

Years ago I used to try sex dating agencies and got nowhere due to timewasters and BOT profiles and I thought going back to hiring an escort is the answer even though it's expensive and now getting an escort is as difficult as trying to get a sex date. Do those escorts have something against making good money or something? I can never understand why so many of them ignore their clients. There was one time somebody answered and she told me she doesn't do escorting anymore. Then I wondered why was her advert still active. Typical, the only one that answered straight away and she doesn't escort anymore. Most of the others never answered their phones and replied to their text messages and the rest took a number of attempts until they answered. I know some can't answer when they have a client apart from when I'm a client but those escorts can't be that busy. Some that answered their phones told me I could see them right away. Another thing, sometimes when I am seeing an escort they keep on answering their phones, talking and wasting my expensive time that I paid for. I wonder why they can't let the phone ring seeing that they are also probably let it ring when I phone when they already have a client. Another escort pulled a fast one. I made an appointment to see her at 3:00pm and when I arrived she had just started seeing a client where she double-booked an appointment and I had to wait out in the rain for thirty minutes until her client had left.
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williamwelder
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18th Jan '22 - 22:20PM
frustrating isnt it
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Ladylush88
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23rd Jan '22 - 00:33AM
I don't ignore my clients but I get time wasters messaging me regularly and if I had to answer every one I'd never get out to work so it's hard to tell at times who's who, I am busy because I have a life and other work to do aswell, all my information is on the advert and I still get stupid questions by phone and text so I ignore it. I love the straight forward guy who doesn't ask questions because he is confident enough to trust his own judgement.
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Anonymoustraveler
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24th Jan '22 - 21:10PM
I think sometimes we are being ignored because some guys are very basic when it comes to writing to an escort, also they asked the same things/questions that these girls have already published in their ads, some of them have told me that. I understand what you are saying, it happens to me very often that out of 10 girls I contacted, only one responds, so I have to keep insisting. We have to be straightforward and ask in a single message if they offer what we are looking for.
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tankengine
6 posts. Member since Nov 2020
28th Mar '22 - 22:27PM
nothing more annoying than a escort checking her messages during your time.
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TheTransporter
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10th May '22 - 01:41AM
the old deposit scam
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Bargeman
12 posts. Member since Jun 2020
4th Sep '22 - 18:01PM
Anonymousetraveler has a point.
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cattypats
9 posts. Member since Jan 2021
5th Sep '22 - 16:11PM
I met one who had no problen anwsering the phone while working..lol
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svetha
5 posts. Member since Mar 2022
10th Feb '23 - 14:00PM
that would turn me right off her
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DavidKnott
8 posts. Member since Sep 2021
6th Mar '23 - 13:48PM
not a problem exclusive to Brighton 😡
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SaskiaJones
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8th Mar '23 - 13:27PM
There may be a few answers about someone not answering there phone to you, please do take offence guys:

We may be off the grid
She may only work part time, but personally could send you a message saying ill contact you later
Your number may be either blocked or be reported on apps explaining you are a TW.

As I said please do not take offence
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RoguePunter
RoguePunter
15 posts. Member since Sep 2021
9th Mar '23 - 02:35AM
The problem gets worse the more popular the provider is, ie all booked up with returning regulars.
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Happyas
Happyas
10 posts. Member since Dec 2021
12th Mar '23 - 00:18AM
I think once they have enough regulars they stop communicating with potentials.
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KayceeRyder
KayceeRyder
4 posts. Member since May 2021
18th Mar '23 - 23:34PM
if im busy i dont reply but will messege back later if i dont think your a tw
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trainspotter
8 posts. Member since Mar 2022
22nd Mar '23 - 12:11PM
understandable when you think about it
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stockingmad
8 posts. Member since Mar 2022
22nd Mar '23 - 14:10PM
not really they could reply
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punter1011
punter1011
10 posts. Member since Dec 2021
16th Jun '23 - 12:33PM
tankengine wrote:
nothing more annoying than a escort checking her messages during your time.


happens way too much
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ChaoticDivinity
36 posts. Member since May 2023
16th Jun '23 - 13:39PM
I dont answer calls at all and tend to only reply to texts if they include the type of meet the client is interested in. This is because of timewasters, so maybe think about your approach because we do get a hell of a lot of timewasters contacting us so it is important to word your first message in a way that makes it clear you are not a timewaster. In the same way we have to make it clear to you on our profiles that we are not scammers, it works both ways with the timewaster and scammer thing.
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