Swinging v escorts?

which do you prefer ?

When I was younger and just beginning to explore my sexuality and permissive nature I went to swinger clubs as a single girl and met with groups and couples and for couples for 3somes in private, but I found the experiences very mixed. Although the odd couple were good but I soon found that most of the women really had no real interest in lesbian sex and were just doing swinging so that their guy could fuck 2 women together.
So I drifted away from the swinging scene and just meet escorts now.

Not easy for a single male to get into the swinger scene so escorts are my option.

Well naturally I would swing if it were an option.

too much drama attached in the swinging scene from my experience.

we like to do both as sometimes we just want to share 1 other person to ourselves.

I use to swing with my partner and we made some good friends doing so.

Tried it a few times but discovered that most couples priority was me having sex with the male and the woman had no interest in sex with me.

we had the same experiences swinging where it was not equal sharing.

Used to with my ex and enjoyed it while it lasted.

can I be your swinging friend Jian ? ❣

there are good reasons for that

dont you have to be married to be a swinger?

Thats the reason why I dont do it.

Escorts/ punting definitely, tried swinging but it was just about the men getting the rocks off, their wives were just the bait and who clearly are not bisexual or enjoying it at all.

combining the two is a solution we have found. We have our swinging friends that we party with but we include bi escorts as well. That way everyone leaves happy.