why do you punt?

for me in a sexless marriage I do it as I have needs.

its cheaper than a season ticket and I always get the result I want..lol

its certainly cheaper than dating and without the baggage.

"its certainly cheaper than dating and without the baggage"

very true

its my hobby

It all makes perfect sense ther are a few guys in a sexless marriage some of them have just either had a baby & ther wife G/F etc aint interested and the fella can feel kinder pushed aside thats sometimes the case with clients I have seen before 1 guy was working at a nightclub as a bouncer who came to see me handsome dishy man he was so good looking fit and yummy in my eyes but his mrs had not long had a baby to cope with he said she lost intrest in him the min a child came along & he said i have needs i was wearing alittle red babydoll and stockings n suspenders underneath he requested his eyes i think said it all to me min he said to me your jist wht i need right now and fucking gorgeous but yes some clients dont want the baggage of another nagging woman down phone neither or wife finding out some clients dont like the fact some escorts wear perfume neither ciz of ther wife or g/f smelling another woman on them tbh theres so many reasons and thats why i say it pretty much makes perfect sense for clients as to why they see escorts they also pay an escort aswell due to keeping quiet about there secert its not just the sexual services a escort offers think thers alot more to it than ppl think we all have needs and reasons but your only human at end of day babe like every 1 else is :)

Because my balls get too big for my pants :lol:

The sex. The excitement of a punt with a new SP. Being able to try things not available in civvy street (to me anyway). And I have begun to realise that while I am certainly not asexual a l might well be aromantic.

I started, like many, because I have a sexless marriage. I’ve had a couple of affairs in the past but that creates additional problems.

I love meeting WGs and love the time with them but I also love the fact that there’s no knot in the stomach next day if I can’t see them.

At the end of the day, although there may be elements still of the seedy, drug needy underworld that exist. I research pretty well and meet independent, beautiful women, who purvey sexual fantasies. In reality this is much more dreamworld than underworld.

Of course we keep it secret because of the many judgemental b’stards out there. It costs money of course, but I recently realised it’s still cheaper than a divorce. So what’s not to like?

I work extremely hard for my Wife and kids, but my wife uses every excuse under the Sun not to have sex

Got so frustrated and bored of being rejected so I searched up escort girls on websites and found and absolutely amazing Woman, I was very nervous about meeting her and felt bad when I booked it, but I went ahead and had an amazing 1 hour with her

I’ve met about 20 girls over the last 2 years and a number of them I’ve met a few times, I’ve had some amazing experiences and unfortunately some bad ones !!!

Seems to be a theme. In a long term relationship but partner lost interest in sex. Just got to a point where i have needs and I'm considering an escort, but i am a bit worried as I have not done this before.

much like DTR73 the misses wont open her legs so looked elsewhere.

Punting for me is something I look forward to in so many ways.
I don’t find my OH attractive anymore and her interest in being intimate are non existent now!!
She has other priorities in her life and over the years I’m further down the pecking order behind her friends, family pets etc.
So I sneak off to add a little sparkle into my life, when she forgets who I am and I feel like I’m being taken for granted.
In some way it’s a little victory to me that I’m still alive and kicking.

I use the services of working girls because within my community being lesbian is frown upon so having a normal relationship is pretty much impossible even if I wanted that. Also I am attracted to women of all ethnicity and like to see different women regularly without any strings attached.

For me it's more of fantasy fulfillment, playing it out.

Relationships have enormous downsides. I had a fairly long marriage but since then I just find this a lot easier. Even when I've been in a relationship I have found it easier to secretly punt than to get the other person to go along with my fetish / fantasy.

I have been married for 30 years , no sex for about 10.
The other thing is being adventurous. I have met some lovely intelligent women who will try different things. I have had 3 and 4 sums.
I wish I could win the lottery!

you sound like me stripper333

As Blackadder said its cheaper then dating.

I use escorts as I like to my work and social life separate,

Because I can