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why I chose escorts
bigbuttx
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10th Apr '23 - 10:01AM
Honestly, just to keep things simple I think.
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25th Oct '23 - 13:25PM
Richmann wrote:
I lost my virginity to a street hooker many many years ago, probably didnt even last a minute to be honest). I was painfully shy so knew I could never sweet talk a girl my age into any sex, let alone a kiss. But I was horny as hell and had got bored of jacking off with no visual stimulation (hardly any internet back then). However as I plucked up the courage to speak to one prossie, and then another one, and then another, I realised I could actually speak to women and they were just human beings like me. They laughed at the same things I did, ate the same food I did, drank the same wine and beer I did, wanted pleasure from sex just like I did.
I'm actually thankful to working girls for giving me a chance in life. And also for teaching me the difference between sex and love. You can have sex with anyone, but you can only make love with someone special.
Dont get me wrong, I think sex should be a human right that all adults have access to in order to function right, and hence the need to for working girls when that someone special is not so special anymore for whatever reason. Everyone should have a at least weekly compulsory fuck session and you would see how different the world would be
I'm actually thankful to working girls for giving me a chance in life. And also for teaching me the difference between sex and love. You can have sex with anyone, but you can only make love with someone special.
Dont get me wrong, I think sex should be a human right that all adults have access to in order to function right, and hence the need to for working girls when that someone special is not so special anymore for whatever reason. Everyone should have a at least weekly compulsory fuck session and you would see how different the world would be
cant argue with that
Gash4Gash
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29th Nov '23 - 15:04PM
yoursister wrote:
simply because I cant be bothered to date
much the same for me its just much less hassle.
Smiths
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10th Dec '23 - 13:58PM
Simple really, as long as you're careful in who you pick you know you are going to get what you want. With civvies its hit and miss.
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10th Dec '23 - 15:35PM
There's always a stigma behind paying for sex, men are looked down upon and judged to say they can't get it any other way, women are judged for being escorts but let's face it, punters are seen worse than WG.
For me, I'm not paying for sex, I can go out and get sex, I'm paying for the no hassle and secrecy, knowing if I see that person in public, it isn't spoken about and thus my personal life isn't affected in any way.
The old saying, I'm not paying for sex, I'm paying for her to leave afterwards...
My wide and I both work away, I go between the north west of England, Germany, Italy, USA and Japan for work...
She goes between the UK and South Africa so sometimes we are apart for maybe a month... times like that, she knows I'll get my end away but aslong as there's no feelings and it isn't anyone we know or are likely to run into amongst out social circle, she is ok with it.
For me, I'm not paying for sex, I can go out and get sex, I'm paying for the no hassle and secrecy, knowing if I see that person in public, it isn't spoken about and thus my personal life isn't affected in any way.
The old saying, I'm not paying for sex, I'm paying for her to leave afterwards...
My wide and I both work away, I go between the north west of England, Germany, Italy, USA and Japan for work...
She goes between the UK and South Africa so sometimes we are apart for maybe a month... times like that, she knows I'll get my end away but aslong as there's no feelings and it isn't anyone we know or are likely to run into amongst out social circle, she is ok with it.
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10th Dec '23 - 15:40PM
hunkyjunk wrote:
I was the same as you OP. Its society that has conditioned everyone to think that paying for sex is wrong and things.
I was 28 when I first paid for it. Up until that point I was dead set head strong that paying for sex is for ugly fat losers and stuff. Omg I was so wrong.
Paying for sex should be downright normal. If only I knew then what I know now when I was a teen and 20's, funds permitting, I wouldn't even bother with dating going nightclubs and bars I'd just go straight to the whores. At that age its literally all I wanted - sex, sex and nothing but the sex. Now I'm closing in on 40 I'm not all that bothered anymore, just have a "treat" here and there!
I was 28 when I first paid for it. Up until that point I was dead set head strong that paying for sex is for ugly fat losers and stuff. Omg I was so wrong.
Paying for sex should be downright normal. If only I knew then what I know now when I was a teen and 20's, funds permitting, I wouldn't even bother with dating going nightclubs and bars I'd just go straight to the whores. At that age its literally all I wanted - sex, sex and nothing but the sex. Now I'm closing in on 40 I'm not all that bothered anymore, just have a "treat" here and there!
100% agree with this, if all the younger lads realised its easier and cheaper to pay for 30 mins with someone to get your end away, there would be alot higher standards for relationships in society, the lads who just wana fuck can do so with WG, this meaning the dating market is actually just for those who want to date... obv you'll have a crossover but it would be cut down to a degree.
I also wish I had explored more when younger, before meeting my wife I'd only been with 3 women, going with escorts has opened my eyes massively to everything on offer and my wife has never had better orgasms as I've seen some escorts who are squirters and taught me how to make her do it etc... escorts were my teachers 😅🤣
Just to clarify, she always orgasmed before it but squirting and knowing what to look for with her bodily movements and being able to reassure her to relax etc, being confident in what I'm doing helped her to relax and be able to squirt, really hard if the women isn't completely relaxed.
punter1011
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10th Dec '23 - 15:49PM
Pq2023 wrote:
There's always a stigma behind paying for sex, men are looked down upon and judged to say they can't get it any other way, women are judged for being escorts but let's face it, punters are seen worse than WG.
For me, I'm not paying for sex, I can go out and get sex, I'm paying for the no hassle and secrecy, knowing if I see that person in public, it isn't spoken about and thus my personal life isn't affected in any way.
The old saying, I'm not paying for sex, I'm paying for her to leave afterwards...
My wide and I both work away, I go between the north west of England, Germany, Italy, USA and Japan for work...
She goes between the UK and South Africa so sometimes we are apart for maybe a month... times like that, she knows I'll get my end away but aslong as there's no feelings and it isn't anyone we know or are likely to run into amongst out social circle, she is ok with it.
For me, I'm not paying for sex, I can go out and get sex, I'm paying for the no hassle and secrecy, knowing if I see that person in public, it isn't spoken about and thus my personal life isn't affected in any way.
The old saying, I'm not paying for sex, I'm paying for her to leave afterwards...
My wide and I both work away, I go between the north west of England, Germany, Italy, USA and Japan for work...
She goes between the UK and South Africa so sometimes we are apart for maybe a month... times like that, she knows I'll get my end away but aslong as there's no feelings and it isn't anyone we know or are likely to run into amongst out social circle, she is ok with it.
Is getting tooled by others while she's away, would seem only fair?
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10th Dec '23 - 16:06PM
punter1011 wrote:
Is getting tooled by others while she's away, would seem only fair?
She's the one who recommended it, we had the conversation about travel and it getting in the way, I wasn't happy going 1 month and floated that I wasn't ready to spend my life like that, she recommended I see WG and set out the guidelines for me doing it.
BiPunters
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10th Dec '23 - 16:12PM
Thesexycouple wrote:
we choose them for similiar reasons, uncomplicated sex
A lot less complicated than swinging for sure.
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13th Dec '23 - 02:18AM
Complicated question to answer but here goes.
I grew up in a tradtional middle class christain family and I think like many that I was taught that "straight" was natural and anything different was wrong. So I guess I fought my sexuality went out with boys only, married had kids, the usual.
But I never felt quite fulfilled, it didn't feel right for me.
Over the passage of time society changed, sexuality/ gender identity and expression of different "norms" facilitated my acceptance of being bisexual or if you prefer pansexual.
After many discussions not always nice with my husband we agreed that I should explore this. I tried the lesbian scene but it wasn't for me, I felt awkward and wrong for me, I felt like it was cheating on our marriage which I didn't and still don't want to do.
So we came up with escorts as a possibility which has been a god send to me, but not only to me, but to my marriage as I'm much happier as a person and my family have noticed that.
So that's my story, sorry for boring you all 😉
I grew up in a tradtional middle class christain family and I think like many that I was taught that "straight" was natural and anything different was wrong. So I guess I fought my sexuality went out with boys only, married had kids, the usual.
But I never felt quite fulfilled, it didn't feel right for me.
Over the passage of time society changed, sexuality/ gender identity and expression of different "norms" facilitated my acceptance of being bisexual or if you prefer pansexual.
After many discussions not always nice with my husband we agreed that I should explore this. I tried the lesbian scene but it wasn't for me, I felt awkward and wrong for me, I felt like it was cheating on our marriage which I didn't and still don't want to do.
So we came up with escorts as a possibility which has been a god send to me, but not only to me, but to my marriage as I'm much happier as a person and my family have noticed that.
So that's my story, sorry for boring you all 😉
