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Das1610
7 posts. Member since Oct 2023
16th Oct '23 - 22:06PM
If many escorts get angry and block your number when asked about BB then what is the best way to enquire about UTC without causing offence?

Would you be upfront about it from the start or is it better to have one or two positive meetings with someone first before daring to ask?

Or is the whole UTC thing a myth and it's better never to ask if it's not advertised?
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Britishwildflower
193 posts. Member since Jan 2020
17th Oct '23 - 07:57AM
Das1610 wrote:
If many escorts get angry and block your number when asked about BB then what is the best way to enquire about UTC without causing offence?

Would you be upfront about it from the start or is it better to have one or two positive meetings with someone first before daring to ask?

Or is the whole UTC thing a myth and it's better never to ask if it's not advertised?


Just booking escorts who tick BB on their profile and are open about it is easier surely? It's no different booking a person who is open about it than a person who is offering it UTC? If she's offering it to you then she's offering it to pretty much everyone I guess so not really different to someone who openly advertises it.
Personally if you had a couple of meets with me then asked you'd still get blocked even if I liked you. I'd just be sad you ruined a good thing by disrespecting my boundaries.
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ming1
13 posts. Member since Feb 2020
17th Oct '23 - 18:39PM
Das1610 wrote:
If many escorts get angry and block your number when asked about BB then what is the best way to enquire about UTC without causing offence?

Would you be upfront about it from the start or is it better to have one or two positive meetings with someone first before daring to ask?

Or is the whole UTC thing a myth and it's better never to ask if it's not advertised?


Its not a myth but its a minefield, there are ways to ask subtly and many that are utc will drop it in as a extra.
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Cherub
9 posts. Member since Aug 2020
18th Nov '23 - 00:12AM
Libertarian wrote:
Classic UTC

www.adultseek.com/HarleyQuinn

First met her and reveiwed 26/04/23 advertised bb at that time.

feedback- "Great sex, total slut..bb/cip yummy"

Following meet 14/05/23 bareback no longer on her list, but bb/cip again provided.

UTC- under the counter


Sadly we have another

www.adultseek.com/ChaoticDivinity

Seems she has gone utc as I've punted her bb with cip and so has another reviewer, but some how his feedback has been redacted to just a thumbs up with all the original text inculing bb gone !

shocking if you ask me.
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harryisthepotter
10 posts. Member since Sep 2020
18th Nov '23 - 09:56AM
Cherub wrote:
[quote=Libertarian]Classic UTC

www.adultseek.com/HarleyQuinn

First met her and reveiwed 26/04/23 advertised bb at that time.

feedback- "Great sex, total slut..bb/cip yummy"

Following meet 14/05/23 bareback no longer on her list, but bb/cip again provided.

UTC- under the counter[/quote]

Sadly we have another

www.adultseek.com/ChaoticDivinity

Seems she has gone utc as I've punted her bb with cip and so has another reviewer, but some how his feedback has been redacted to just a thumbs up with all the original text inculing bb gone !

shocking if you ask me.


Hate it when they do that (go utc), or maybe she has changed services available. Without a explanation in her profile we'll never know which.
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howlingdoug
howlingdoug
8 posts. Member since Mar 2022
19th Nov '23 - 11:47AM
Sadly it appears to be a trend at the moment. All the following had bareback in their services provided lists, all have been reviewed as bb and all have gone utc.

www.adultseek.com/VANESA22

www.adultseek.com/petiteEscortGirl

www.adultseek.com/1Alishaxx

www.adultseek.com/teiubesc

www.adultseek.com/MissVictoria

www.adultseek.com/lorrena23

www.adultseek.com/Jessyca

www.adultseek.com/CleoSexy

www.adultseek.com/Mellanya
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Splittingu
4 posts. Member since Feb 2023
19th Nov '23 - 14:35PM
howlingdoug wrote:
Sadly it appears to be a trend at the moment. All the following had bareback in their services provided lists, all have been reviewed as bb and all have gone utc.

www.adultseek.com/VANESA22

www.adultseek.com/petiteEscortGirl

www.adultseek.com/1Alishaxx

www.adultseek.com/teiubesc

www.adultseek.com/MissVictoria

www.adultseek.com/lorrena23

www.adultseek.com/Jessyca

www.adultseek.com/CleoSexy

www.adultseek.com/Mellanya


Conversely they may have just taken it off the menu for now, restaurants do that all the time.
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AndyAdipose
8 posts. Member since Jan 2021
3rd Dec '23 - 15:25PM
RavenJohn wrote:
To answer your question stockingmad yes many are utc for bb.


its definitely getting more common.
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pilloboy
4 posts. Member since Mar 2022
15th Dec '23 - 17:17PM
I'm new to this but I go to London 3 time a year and stop in Reading on my way home I set up a reverse booking and say then it's up to them but u'd be surprised how many will for the rite money
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Pq2023
67 posts. Member since Nov 2023
17th Dec '23 - 01:58AM
I avoid any escorts who advertise BB, given how often and how easy STD are passed on, they're not only opening themselves up, theyre opening all their clients up to STD too.
It's an increased risk I won't open myself up to. I'm tested every 4 weeks and usually see 1 WG per week so if I ever get anything I can narrow it down to those few, discuss it with them and see who it was. So far I've never had one but I have known someone to get oral ghonnarea from going down on a girl who did BB. Put me off for life.
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Pq2023
67 posts. Member since Nov 2023
17th Dec '23 - 02:07AM
Britishwildflower wrote:
[quote=Das1610]If many escorts get angry and block your number when asked about BB then what is the best way to enquire about UTC without causing offence?

Would you be upfront about it from the start or is it better to have one or two positive meetings with someone first before daring to ask?

Or is the whole UTC thing a myth and it's better never to ask if it's not advertised?[/quote]

Just booking escorts who tick BB on their profile and are open about it is easier surely? It's no different booking a person who is open about it than a person who is offering it UTC? If she's offering it to you then she's offering it to pretty much everyone I guess so not really different to someone who openly advertises it.
Personally if you had a couple of meets with me then asked you'd still get blocked even if I liked you. I'd just be sad you ruined a good thing by disrespecting my boundaries.


This may just be my anecdotal experience but usually those openly offering BB are not exactly very good looking and do it to attract a certain type of person... I dont want to be too mean with words but they're almost having to do something to stand out to get any custom at all...

As someone who is married, I even dispose of my own rubbers during meets as I dont want to be impregnating anyone 😅
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PearlNexen
User no longer active
19th Dec '23 - 20:35PM
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This may just be my anecdotal experience but usually those openly offering BB are not exactly very good looking and do it to attract a certain type of person... I dont want to be too mean with words but they're almost having to do something to stand out to get any custom at all...

As someone who is married, I even dispose of my own rubbers during meets as I dont want to be impregnating anyone 😅[/quote]

I think you are very wrong, perhaps because you are still young (as you say in so many posts)... sometimes and because of customers like you who many become UTC, offering BB has to do with each person's choice, and Only she herself knows her reasons!
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MerchantSeman
9 posts. Member since Mar 2023
19th Dec '23 - 22:11PM
You need to be very cautious about either exposing utc prossies in the feedback you leave or leaving bb feedback as quite a few punters have had their profiles banned/ deleted and the feedback on the bareback prossie removed recently for leaving honest feedback after the prossie who was bb went utc and reported the bb feedback to the site admin as false and on many occasions this was weeks or months after the feedback was accepted by the prossie and was visable on their profile.
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EnglishPheobex
9 posts. Member since Sep 2021
19th Dec '23 - 22:30PM
MerchantSeman wrote:
You need to be very cautious about either exposing utc prossies in the feedback you leave or leaving bb feedback as quite a few punters have had their profiles banned/ deleted and the feedback on the bareback prossie removed recently for leaving honest feedback after the prossie who was bb went utc and reported the bb feedback to the site admin as false and on many occasions this was weeks or months after the feedback was accepted by the prossie and was visable on their profile.


Mmmm noticed the to and thats so wrong.
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