What characteristics make up a honest provider profile?

NaughtyMayaGigi
10 posts. Member since Apr 2022
24th May '23 - 09:07AM
I have been doing this for a few years and never had face pictures. It's just for my own discretion as it's not a long term job for me and not my only job as well. Being discreet is important to me and most of my clients that are in relationships.
I also don't send pictures of myself to potential clients as they can save it or use it to wank.

At the end of the day, you only pay me after you have seen me in person. If you don't like what you see, then just leave.
My pictures are taken by myself on my phone, so might not be the best, but they are real.
As for feedback. I never ask anyone to write one. So maybe don't judge all profiles based on that.

AND PLEASE READ THE PROFILES! Most of the time, all info is there. Some profiles also have the same things written down, those are probably fake or copy and paste.
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BillyBeaver
7 posts. Member since Feb 2023
25th May '23 - 11:27AM
mrowo wrote:
"Honesty or truthfulness is a facet of moral character that connotes positive and virtuous attributes such as integrity, truthfulness, straightforwardness, including straightforwardness of conduct, along with the absence of lying, cheating, theft, etc."

In other words a profile that does not cheat, lie, deceive either the clients or her family as to what she is and has a gallery with face and full body pictures.


that nailed it
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EnglishMaddie
6 posts. Member since Feb 2020
25th May '23 - 12:19PM
ChaoticDivinity wrote:
Faces either cropped out or blurred means they have a life outside of escorting and need to be discreet


Are you saying that as we both have face pictures, we dont have a life beyond escorting ?
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eyeswideshut
10 posts. Member since Nov 2020
25th May '23 - 15:37PM
Discretion, I can fully understand as a reason a client would have for no face photo on our profiles, but so far as an excuse from a escort in her chosen profession, sorry I dont buy it for a number of reasons.
1. You have chosen to be a sex worker and sell yourself, your body for the sexual pleasures of others. Therefore what you look like is important to us, the clients.
2. If you are hiding what you for a living from your family you are walking on a tightrope.
3. It's dishonest.
4. It's the most common excuse used by those who are involved in scamming.

Had my say
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Britishwildflower
193 posts. Member since Jan 2020
25th May '23 - 16:42PM
eyeswideshut wrote:
Discretion, I can fully understand as a reason a client would have for no face photo on our profiles, but so far as an excuse from a escort in her chosen profession, sorry I dont buy it for a number of reasons.
1. You have chosen to be a sex worker and sell yourself, your body for the sexual pleasures of others. Therefore what you look like is important to us, the clients.
2. If you are hiding what you for a living from your family you are walking on a tightrope.
3. It's dishonest.
4. It's the most common excuse used by those who are involved in scamming.

Had my say


Yeah we totally exist in a vacuum where sex work is the only thing we do. I have a day job dude and work with several local charities as well. Plus international borders are starting to be closed to face out escorts using face scanning technologies. I'd like to travel thanks. If anyone thinks that makes me 'dishonest' rather than smart and forward thinking, they should only book with face out escorts rather than whinging about the rest of us protecting ourselves.
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NaughtyMayaGigi
10 posts. Member since Apr 2022
25th May '23 - 17:35PM
eyeswideshut wrote:
Discretion, I can fully understand as a reason a client would have for no face photo on our profiles, but so far as an excuse from a escort in her chosen profession, sorry I dont buy it for a number of reasons.
1. You have chosen to be a sex worker and sell yourself, your body for the sexual pleasures of others. Therefore what you look like is important to us, the clients.
2. If you are hiding what you for a living from your family you are walking on a tightrope.
3. It's dishonest.
4. It's the most common excuse used by those who are involved in scamming.

Had my say


So how is it not dishonest of clients to hide their face?
A client would need the discretion because of work, family, relationships or other personal reasons.

Why is it only dishonest if a escort decides to also be discreet? You do know we are human beings? Which means we also have our reasons for not having face pictures.

I chose to do this job and I like it. But I am not willing to have my face on the internet for the rest of my life. Nothing gets 100% deleted from the internet. That's just my preference.
I understand a clients hesitation towards no face profiles. But please don't put scammers and working girls on the same boat.
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TheLordoftheNorth
16 posts. Member since Jun 2020
25th May '23 - 18:57PM
Britishwildflower wrote:
[quote=eyeswideshut]Discretion, I can fully understand as a reason a client would have for no face photo on our profiles, but so far as an excuse from a escort in her chosen profession, sorry I dont buy it for a number of reasons.
1. You have chosen to be a sex worker and sell yourself, your body for the sexual pleasures of others. Therefore what you look like is important to us, the clients.
2. If you are hiding what you for a living from your family you are walking on a tightrope.
3. It's dishonest.
4. It's the most common excuse used by those who are involved in scamming.

Had my say[/quote]

international borders are starting to be closed to face out escorts using face scanning technologies.


That smells like BS to me
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Britishwildflower
193 posts. Member since Jan 2020
25th May '23 - 19:55PM
TheLordoftheNorth wrote:
[quote=Britishwildflower][quote=eyeswideshut]Discretion, I can fully understand as a reason a client would have for no face photo on our profiles, but so far as an excuse from a escort in her chosen profession, sorry I dont buy it for a number of reasons.
1. You have chosen to be a sex worker and sell yourself, your body for the sexual pleasures of others. Therefore what you look like is important to us, the clients.
2. If you are hiding what you for a living from your family you are walking on a tightrope.
3. It's dishonest.
4. It's the most common excuse used by those who are involved in scamming.

Had my say[/quote]

international borders are starting to be closed to face out escorts using face scanning technologies. [/quote]

That smells like BS to me


You haven't heard of it happening so it's BS? Okie dokie.
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ThaliaFinch
9 posts. Member since May 2023
26th May '23 - 18:32PM
FaithSummers wrote:
If I was a punter I would be very suspicious of any profile without face pictures as its most likely bait and switch.


Not in my case. I’m based in Edinburgh and it can feel like quite a small town sometimes. I have a day job outside of escorting (wfh with flexible hours at least!) and don’t want to risk that by showing my face in my profile or on my site.

Some of us value our privacy because of work, friends and family and it has nothing to do with bait and switch or that we’re secretly ugly.
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Blackadder
6 posts. Member since Jul 2022
26th May '23 - 19:35PM
Britishwildflower wrote:
[quote=eyeswideshut]Discretion, I can fully understand as a reason a client would have for no face photo on our profiles, but so far as an excuse from a escort in her chosen profession, sorry I dont buy it for a number of reasons.
1. You have chosen to be a sex worker and sell yourself, your body for the sexual pleasures of others. Therefore what you look like is important to us, the clients.
2. If you are hiding what you for a living from your family you are walking on a tightrope.
3. It's dishonest.
4. It's the most common excuse used by those who are involved in scamming.

Had my say[/quote]

Yeah we totally exist in a vacuum where sex work is the only thing we do. I have a day job dude and work with several local charities as well. Plus international borders are starting to be closed to face out escorts using face scanning technologies. I'd like to travel thanks. If anyone thinks that makes me 'dishonest' rather than smart and forward thinking, they should only book with face out escorts rather than whinging about the rest of us protecting ourselves.


so what kind of side job is it that you tell your family you do that brings in the kind of money a escort makes a week, plumber, heating engineer, lawyer or doctor ?
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Britishwildflower
193 posts. Member since Jan 2020
26th May '23 - 23:08PM
Blackadder wrote:
[quote=Britishwildflower][quote=eyeswideshut]Discretion, I can fully understand as a reason a client would have for no face photo on our profiles, but so far as an excuse from a escort in her chosen profession, sorry I dont buy it for a number of reasons.
1. You have chosen to be a sex worker and sell yourself, your body for the sexual pleasures of others. Therefore what you look like is important to us, the clients.
2. If you are hiding what you for a living from your family you are walking on a tightrope.
3. It's dishonest.
4. It's the most common excuse used by those who are involved in scamming.

Had my say[/quote]

Yeah we totally exist in a vacuum where sex work is the only thing we do. I have a day job dude and work with several local charities as well. Plus international borders are starting to be closed to face out escorts using face scanning technologies. I'd like to travel thanks. If anyone thinks that makes me 'dishonest' rather than smart and forward thinking, they should only book with face out escorts rather than whinging about the rest of us protecting ourselves.[/quote]

so what kind of side job is it that you tell your family you do that brings in the kind of money a escort makes a week, plumber, heating engineer, lawyer or doctor ?


LOL because all escorts make a lot of money of course? I live in a rural area. It's not exactly bountiful with clients, my availability is limited with my day job and there are a few other lovely girls in my local town too so I'm hardly sat here dripping in diamonds and designer stuff. Those closest to me know what I do anyway and I'm not sure about the people in your life but the people in mine aren't that nosy about finances because it's considered ill-mannered to ask such things.
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EBL
8 posts. Member since Feb 2022
27th May '23 - 00:23AM
Britishwildflower wrote:
[quote=Blackadder][quote=Britishwildflower][quote=eyeswideshut]Discretion, I can fully understand as a reason a client would have for no face photo on our profiles, but so far as an excuse from a escort in her chosen profession, sorry I dont buy it for a number of reasons.
1. You have chosen to be a sex worker and sell yourself, your body for the sexual pleasures of others. Therefore what you look like is important to us, the clients.
2. If you are hiding what you for a living from your family you are walking on a tightrope.
3. It's dishonest.
4. It's the most common excuse used by those who are involved in scamming.

Had my say[/quote]

Yeah we totally exist in a vacuum where sex work is the only thing we do. I have a day job dude and work with several local charities as well. Plus international borders are starting to be closed to face out escorts using face scanning technologies. I'd like to travel thanks. If anyone thinks that makes me 'dishonest' rather than smart and forward thinking, they should only book with face out escorts rather than whinging about the rest of us protecting ourselves.[/quote]

so what kind of side job is it that you tell your family you do that brings in the kind of money a escort makes a week, plumber, heating engineer, lawyer or doctor ?[/quote]

LOL because all escorts make a lot of money of course? I live in a rural area.


do you do tractor meets ?
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BONK
9 posts. Member since Jul 2022
27th May '23 - 01:39AM
NaughtyMayaGigi wrote:
I have been doing this for a few years and never had face pictures. It's just for my own discretion as it's not a long term job for me and not my only job as well. Being discreet is important to me and most of my clients that are in relationships.
I also don't send pictures of myself to potential clients as they can save it or use it to wank.

At the end of the day, you only pay me after you have seen me in person. If you don't like what you see, then just leave.
My pictures are taken by myself on my phone, so might not be the best, but they are real.
As for feedback. I never ask anyone to write one. So maybe don't judge all profiles based on that.

AND PLEASE READ THE PROFILES! Most of the time, all info is there. Some profiles also have the same things written down, those are probably fake or copy and paste.


so if I book you for a overnight but dont like what I see then your not going to throw a wobbly that you just lost £1100 ?
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Topcock
Topcock
3 posts. Member since Jun 2020
1st Nov '23 - 14:37PM
TystingGent wrote:
Too often we see not just on this site but on all, Sex provider profiles with no face, just body part photos ( boobs, legs and bum), vague profile descriptions of services offered and extra's.

What do you look for in a honest profile ?


As said pretty much by everyone else not profiles with no face, just body part photos ( boobs, legs and bum), vague profile descriptions of services offered and extra's.
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Lustwithoutcaution
4 posts. Member since May 2023
8th Dec '23 - 16:47PM
Britishwildflower wrote:
I I find people don't seem to leave reviews on here for some reason.


It seems we do though
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PostmanPatric
PostmanPatric
10 posts. Member since Jul 2020
11th Jan '24 - 14:44PM
Honesty is most likely subjective to the eye of the creator compared to the eye of the client.
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