Being robbed or assaulted.

Please be very careful with who you see. Please make sure people don’t over step your boundaries and make sure you have a picture of them at least.
I usually have an age limit but sometimes I’m more slack; I made A mistake and paid for it. I was assaulted and shoved, and had money stolen from me tonight. A black guy, who I then handed his number over to police, took advantage of me and threatened to have people come to my house. This site needs More help for us ladies and those that work. The site also needs more vetting for he gentleman to gain access to our numbers. Something needs to be done!
Saddened and upset by this traumatic experience and it’s not fair. People should be help accountable.

Stick together ladies and always keep safe.

Hi, sorry to hear about your ordeal,I was also threatened but he came from the other site aw,but said he was going to come back and get me robbed,this happened in Nottingham,which i find notts to be full of very obnoxious idiots
Well i hope you don't experience this again,
Btw,which city did this happen in xx

Hi davina69,
Thank you for your response. I’ve noticed that the younger gents (typically under 30) are the ones that get aggressive and nasty. I’m in Hatfield and so far in the last year I’ve been assaulted 3 times.
Adultwork has been the site where most of them have the worst attitudes. I’m glad I’m not the only one who can speak about this but there’s really nothing that stops them.
I called the police on the latest guy but it would be helpful if us girls could let others know who he is and his details so we can avoid... it’s very much one sided when it comes to sites like this.
Thank you for your kind words and support- means a lot.
I hope we all have a safe and healthy work environment. At the end of the day they get what they want, we don’t have to put up with the nastiness. We are all grownups!
Take care sweet x

Omg girl sorry to hear that im a 28 year old male and i think the guys doing that to you are assholes .... hope you girls stay safe ... at the end of the day your just doing a job

Hii,yes and a very good job too..lol..but seriously it was my first ever encounter with threatening behaviour,I've noticed that the clientele are getting much younger too so i won't see anyone under 25 unless they have good feedback,I also never give out my exact location only my postcode,I'll ask them to call my mobile so i can make an immediate judgment on their tone and mannerisms,if they come across too ''street" or little obnoxious then i politely make my excuses.
I do believe there is a site for Escorts it's the sister site to UK punting,I think it's called "UK escorting" not 100% but there is also National Ugly Mugs.this site allows you to keep up-to-date with information on bad punters and u can put their number on this site to warn other workers.
Good luck.and stay safe xx

Wooow ladies sorry to hear about this everyone please be aware and stay safe xx

If you have a spy hole in your front door but a spy hole camera from Amazon or eBay that records when it senses movement.

You can buy wireless spy cameras to enable you to record each client coming threw your door at the end of the day it is to protect yourself and if you had that them men would be bought to justice. I read the news from stoke on trent lots of men getting taken to court for paying for services.

I went to work in Luton I turned my phone off in the end as I do not see Asians or black men or people who do not speak English. Due to negative story's I hear about them off other girls.

Hatfield I thought was similare to stevenage mostly English. Do not stop pushing the police ring my mobile number it is on my page and I will give you information that you are to follow with them or tell you what they are suppose to follow and you can buy it and read it it has the laws in there it's their own books.

I noticed clients can read and comment so I am not saying on here as you never know if they are good or bad.

You can get pepper spray or try and get a something to protect your self you have a right to protect your self in your own home by any means necessary. X

Ugly mugs is excellent,but we need to report incidents to them for hem to record them.keep safe all.

Firstly,
Hope you ladies had a wonderful Christmas and new year if you celebrate those festivities.

Thank you all for the replies.
I’ve been an escort since I was legally able to and I’ve seen many types of men.
I’ve always had bad experiences with black and Asian. They either lie, trick you or don’t want to pay once they arrive.
I’ve had some bad white men but they generally know the ‘rules’ of being a punter and get on with it.
I have a man that will text me once they arrive to check on me and will sometimes handle situations if I feel unsafe.
I’ve definitely thought about getting one of those ring doorbell camera things. That way I have proof they were here and they can’t deny that!
Luton and Hatfield are very similar yes, I tried working in Luton but as you said, more Asians than anything else which wasn’t the type I like.
Some of them just don’t read the profile and it really causes arguments when trying to explain.
I will have a look at the sites mentions for us ladies to stick together and kee a record of those that wish to sue us harm.

This is a separate incident:
I recently had a black gentleman want to do some massage and karma sutra massage.
He wanted an out call to which I declined. Basically he told me it was a good idea I didn’t do an outcall as he had planned to assault me, record it to later blackmail me, and use my adult work account to find personal information.
As I didn’t know anything about the guy apart from mobile number and ‘name’ the police couldn’t do anything about it.
The way in which he said those things was as if he had done it before.
It sickens me and scares me to know people like that take advantage of something we do.
We are their for this pleasure yet they act as if they do us a favour.
Stay safe this new year, make that money and enjoy the company in which you keep.
I’ve learnt a lot lately that my safety isn’t going to be compromised by £120 or whatever they promise.

Again, thank you all for taking the time to reply to me.
X

Download call record on your phone I had a client think he was bad sending me abuse due to me advising the stupid get I only reply to bookings I don't get paid to text rubbish so he decided to send me abuse. I sent him our recorded conversation and told him I am uploading it to the internet ?? he threaded me with the police (due to me knowing the law I advised him keep his text so police can tell him to sod off as he had sent abuse for 3 hours despite me warming him am not the sort of woman you want to mess with ?)

If they call you love babe or be patronising don't see them well I don't I have not had any issues face to face I don't know if it's because I have no tolerance and block people who annoy me by phone or text or if it's because I don't see Asian or blacks.

Put your prices up its your choice who you see you don't have to see people who attempt to bribe etc.

Cameras and call record are very good to have you can get spy cameras that can hide in room too (not to watch what you do but yo make sure you get their face for if you need it) girls need more protection than them a lot of weirdos out there.

Direct them in to your apartments. Always work from a place that has cameras on the outside to see them and their car and what way they walked in as cctv is everywhere now a days.

Keep safe ladies remember your safety is paramount not theirs ! I went to Luton ?? I refused to see everyone who rang me apart from the one English guy that rang me.

Can't believe people sometimes it saddens me . I'm a little shy so text at first and so far no replies . After reading this one wonders . Hope you all stay safe and avoid the arseholes ! X

report them on saafe and to numugs

Iv has bad experinces with clients meself even raped and then discrimated against the law n bled so bad frm a doctor who discrimated me against escorting she caused me to bleed id have to think i needed to phone emergncy to what she did to me ontop of rape of being a victim of crime frm a client who gave me H.pylori it toke two months hunni for me to go to me own gp instead of gum cllinic that cidnt find jack shit to find out what the bastard had given me who raped me which can cause stomache cancer so be aware if anything happens to you or ur protecting a client by saying no or no to bareback n they force it on you n ur a carrier ther at risk of contracting without ur concent so iv always said sfe sex is must babe xx

If u tell a client NO IS NO N u dont do bareback & they force it on you its classed as sexual asualt & rape which what happen to me i met another escort years ago for a client and we swear down it was same bloke tht done it to us both we met on diff circumstances due to a lovely client who wanted to treat himself to a 3 sum for xmas and thats how i came across the other escort but we sat down for an hour talking and we suffered same experience frm this arsehole who we think raped us diffeent times we talked about what he did the other client was out picture we knew he was harmless but we said omfg i bet its the guy who did same to her not the client we.d just seen but a client who did same to her living in her area and then targeted me we spoken about it and everything he told her he did to aswell RAPE FORCED BAREBACK without concent discribed to me exactly same what happen to me aswell but thinks he is else where npw in the country dont know where exactly xx

Times have changed significantly now especially in stoke on trent they arrest clients for fun because they see girls as a victim who are being exploytated.
No means NO. Your self employed, at any time you can say get out and end the booking if they start getting mouthy throw your hair in a bun open your and throw his clothes out cause a scean when you do that you take any form of laughable control they think they may have away from them!
If I don't like the sound of someone on the phone I don't see them and if they don't peak English I message and tell them straight I your not English so do not message me.

You have the right to protect your self if that means stabbing a Client or knocking him out do that and phone 999 and tell them how you was protecting your self and why it is self defence so will be a NFA. And he will go on a register.

Even if they send a text that makes you feel uncomfortable or that annoys you don't let them book you if they annoy you by text it on the phone they will annoy you in the room. I terminate a booking if they ring and text me before there time of booking but we all do things differently. I just have no tolerance for certain things.

I had to tell another girl to stop offering owo because a few times she came out the room upset feeling violated as she said no to facefucking and cim but he grabbed her head and done it anyway. Since she's put her prices up and stopped providing owo she has had better clients and is much happier.

Amazon do door cameras. And download call record 2018 on your work phone and store and block the dickheads. You can get different spy cams for your room too if you have done one that makes you feel uncomfortable because there is no better Evidance than video evidence when convicting someone of rape. All woman should go to the police I advised another woman in Manchester to call police she was in Manchester working a Client booked her for the hour, when he left she went to jump in the shower, next thing there was banging on her hotel door, he was demanding his money back or he will tell everyone she's escorting he intimidated her and she gave him that money back. After speaking to me at length she finally rang the police. I found his picture from Google and I rang him and left the rapist a delightful voicenote he would not answer his phone to me. But he kept ringing her making threats to her and threats to have her kids taken off her and cause her problems! Lucky she has no children. But this is the mentality of a sexual preditor, attempting to control and manipulate someone who has more than likely done this to neive little girls now trying his luck with working girls!

Stay safe. Your self employed you choose who you see and when you see them. And what times and days you work. Vice help girls now a days they are more for working girls than the clients.

Report it to the police and NUM

the use of a nanny cam is a good idea.

Hi ladies,

I’ve since changed my services to offering exclusively mistress appointments. And increased my prices.

I feel the police really can’t
Do anything- as I do cal them when these incidents happen. They can’t find the person, I don’t have their full name so it’s just logged.
But CE and num is great. I now screen all clients via every way possible!
Not had any bad bookings since.

Thank you. Really I appreciate all your replies.

Hope you’ve all been safe during pandemic

Xxx

It’s a pity that younger guys get a bad press as I’ve had a lot of good experiences with young men.
I don’t think it matters what the age. Either a guys decent or not & we just have to source out the good from the bad. I can tell in about 30 seconds talking to a client whether I deem him a decent guy, and if in doubt at all, I don’t see them.

Please report on a app called ClientEye...so other escorts can be aware of this person if they use the same mobile number...The app is easy to use and usefull as you can safeguard yourself abit more